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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
January 1st 2024, 01:30 AM
I HATE having to bother you multiple times, especially knowing you're on vacation. But, if you had sent me the schedules like you agreed to do, I wouldn't have to. So, it's kind of your own fault. And, yes, if you have to switch my days because I didn't get his to you soon enough, then that's on me. But, how the hell was I supposed to know you were doing it early this week, or that you were leaving again?! I haven't even been on the damn thing for 2 weeks!
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Last edited by Kate*; January 1st 2024 at 07:18 AM.
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
January 16th 2024, 10:32 AM
Say whatever negative things about it that you want, and they're all true. But, it means that I really trust you. You might be a hypocrite of the highest order, you might screw me over, and I may not believe a word you say without proof. But, I must know on the most basic level that I can completely lose it in front of you, and nothing bad will happen. It's probably exhausting for you, but it's also why I will never leave.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
February 5th 2024, 10:47 PM
The fact that I only get my schedule, and not the whole thing makes me suspicious. But, I know you mostly open, and all of my few shifts are mornings now, so I wonder if that's a coincidence. Or, if it'll suddenly flip; which would also make me paranoid that you're screwing me over..
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
February 17th 2024, 12:49 AM
I'm watching closely and considering my options carefully. Don't think for one second that I will let you jerk me around. Especially with seniority and protection on my side.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
February 21st 2024, 07:21 AM
You keep saying, when your youngest graduates, you can leave and go anywhere you want. I mean it when I say that if you leave, I leave. Even if it's years away.
And, I know you're jealous. Now imagine that feeling and having your income cut by 2/3 because it happened, and you'll understand why I'm so mad.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
February 23rd 2024, 03:28 AM
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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
February 26th 2024, 04:13 AM
Personally, I don't think you're doing well enough that you can afford screwing over some of your most loyal and dependable employees, (or take the risk of being accused of discrimination.) But, what the fuck do I know, I'm just living it. Amazing human, bad manager personified.
But, I can see this coming, so I have my next move in mind. Watch it go to him instead. Then I will give up. If you really cared as much as you claim you did, you'd respect me enough to be honest.
If you're going to screw me, at least be man enough to admit it to my face!
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Last edited by Kate*; February 28th 2024 at 12:31 AM.
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
March 3rd 2024, 11:30 PM
Thank God I have leverage for now, because 90 days in, and you're already trying to screw me over. But, for the record, I ASKED, I didn't TELL you, I made ZERO mention of it, and you'd have nothing to worry about if you just followed the rules in the first place! You don't get to be mad at me for using resources I pay for, to get what I'm entitled to, just because you don't want to give it to me.
I could absolutely see you deciding to switch stores and leave us. And if you do, I leave. I said from the beginning, if you leave, I leave, and I meant it.
I have a feeling tomorrow is going to suck.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
March 11th 2024, 05:45 AM
If you value family time that much, and I'm not saying you shouldn't, then you're in the wrong business.
STOP complaining to me about your hours. You are full-time, yours are guaranteed, I was given 4, that wasn't even going to be 4, and was LUCKY to get 5.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
March 18th 2024, 10:27 PM
When we eventually have the conversation that lays it all on the table, it's going to be VERY interesting. If you weren't as good a person as you are, I'd say you don't deserve me.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
March 29th 2024, 05:42 AM
As someone who's had more than his fair share of privileges because the manager is your friend, you don't get to complain about things not being fair.
This is why I said, and will continue to say, I don't want anyone but you touching my schedule. Fair doesn't always mean equal, and the way she's doing it, the only way to get what I need is to get promoted by some miracle so she's FORCED to give me enough.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
April 8th 2024, 04:11 AM
Are you understanding the part where I'm not available for full-time hours ONLY because I got another job so I could STAY with you, after you told me I would NEVER have full-time hours again? Yet you immediately had them for other people?! Did that register? Because then we're all good; otherwise I call bullshit. You think it's a simple conversation, then you have it, and you take care of me like you have every other time.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
April 14th 2024, 07:13 AM
If you're stringing me along until I'm a neurotypical extrovert, you may as well tell me I'll be promotable when I get taller. I'm not sure you really get that. Also, I think she's doing my review, and I REALLY want you to do it. Because she doesn't know 99% of what happened before she got here, and I think the unrealistic push rests with her.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
May 3rd 2024, 04:33 AM
I've done it for 4 months now, and the only things I've learned is that you still don't know what accommodation or disability means, and I was right about my abilities the whole time. You said I had to do it, and technically I can. But, I may never be leadership material, and it better not be based on that.
You need to talk to them again, because I'm not the only one, and it obviously didn't take.
Get your ass back in your own store. WE are your priority, and you need to act like it!
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte