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Hi. I finally decided to start getting online to see if anyone else has had problems with being too big. My doctor calls it overdeveloped. Basically my penis is way way bigger than normal. It’s embarrassing and I worry that no girl will ever want to be with me or that I’ll never be able to have sex. I still worry all the time about how noticeable it is in my pants. Anyway. That’s it. Just looking for people who understand.
Hey, so the short answer is, has anyone else had this problem? Yes, I have, and I know there are a few others here who've been in the same position. Try not to let it get you down. However unusual you might feel right now, you'll find ways to deal with it. Just remember that you're not alone, and if you've got people you can talk with, that's the most important thing.
I understand that this might be embarrassing for you but if you feel like it's consuming your thoughts, maybe a visit to the doctor may help to relieve some of this anxiousness and you can talk about some options.
As jamiep77 mentioned, there are a few men that are in the same position and women often worry about their chest size as well.
I know this can be an embarrassing issue, but trust me, you're not alone. Don't let it upset you, and see if there are folks you can talk to. Visiting your doctor could be an option if you're really worried. And I'm always happy to listen.
Re: Getting Too Big -
September 2nd 2020, 10:11 AM
Hi!
It's understandable, it's normal to be embarrassed, especially at your situation, but everything will go well. Don't be alarmed if your doctor didn't say "no".