Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!) As a guest you can submit help requests, create and reply to Forum posts, join our Chat Room and read our range of articles & resources. By registering you will be able to get fully involved in our community and enjoy features such as connect with members worldwide, add friends & send messages, express yourself through a Blog, find others with similar interests in Social Groups, post pictures and links, set up a profile and more! Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now!
Pregnancy and Childcare If you're pregnant, a young parent, or have questions related to either, ask them here!
The reason why I haven't been on alot is because I'm pregnant. My foster dad sexually abused me and now I'm 6 months pregnant I'm carrying a baby boy. I know I'm young, but I have sucessfully raised my little siblings so far. I can deal with babies, I raised my little siblings in a abusive foster home for 2 years. I am keeping the baby and I hope you will all support my decision I'm not in the abusive enviroment anymore and I have a healthy living space. I have Mason 2 and Andrew 3 living with me and my new foster mum and the rest of my siblings are living with my twin brother Ronnie and his foster mum. We are only about 4 blocks away, so I have his support. I hope you all support my decision
Thanks Justin , I also consider myself to be very resposible and mature, I mean I have sucessfully dealt with Mason and I have looked after the other 3 to. I know how to deal with babies and I know how to deal with babies with disabilites. I'm ready for this I know all about the sleepless nights and the no fun deal. I know I can do this, I just want to make sure I have your support
Last edited by Crimson_Craze; May 25th 2011 at 07:52 PM.
I am so surprised at how well your handling your situation. Lot's of teens, and even adults wouldn't know what to do. I am so proud of the fact that even though it wasn't your fault, you are taking responsibility. As for boy names, I love the names Chrysler (Yes, I know...it's sort of weird), and Elliot. I think they're definitely cute. What names do you prefer? We can't name your baby for you! Hehe.
I may wear the glass slippers; But my hero wears combat boots <3 I love you, Lieutenant
HelpLink Mentor 6/13/2011
Pregnancy & Childcare Moderator 11/26/2011
Fashion & Style Moderator 12/28/2011
Social Groups Moderator 12/28/2011
I just need some suggesions I named my little brother Mason (Mason Timothy) and my little brother Andrew (Ryan Andrew) but he doesn't like he name Ryan so we call him Andrew.
Congratulations! You are so brave especially at 13, I wish you the best of luck hun ♥ xxxxxxx
When your in danger or in harms way its no longer just your life, its everyone who you have seen, spoken to, met, shared experiences with because even if you don't think that they have had an influence on your life or made you realise something, you have probably influenced them. Your never the only one involved in your life.
Wow, you are so brave for taking care of a baby at 13. I'm sorry about what happened between you and your foster dad.
I think that the name Noah is cute, I also love the name Aaron. =)
Good luck with everything!
Hey there I'm Blue I am almost 13 and I am also pregnant. My situation has similarities to yours. I am sorry for what happened you must be so brave to take on so much responsibility. You seem to be handling it pretty well but I wish you luck all the same. and message me any time if you would like.
I couldn't imagine having a baby... I think you're really brave for going through with this =) It's importnant now for you to do your best to stay in education - other than a paper-round or the occasional dish-washing job, you'd need at least basic qualifications to get a job to provide for your son when you're older. Sorry if this seems intrusive, but are you living in the UK?
I like Callum as a boys name ^^ It means 'peace' Best of luck with everything If you ever want to talk, you can drop me a pm
There's always light at the end of a tunnel, even if you have to pass a few bends to see it.
Hey there sweetie,
I support you 100% on this. You are so mature and I can tell you are ready for this. I am always here if you need someone to talk to no matter what. I am so sorry for what has happened to you, but I love how you can take something bad that has happened to you and make it a good thing. As for baby names I love the names: Cody Aaron, Conor Anthony, Aiden, Cayden, Dylan, Braden, Brasion. Although its your choice and I bet what ever name you choose you baby will be adorable. You will do great Congratulations.
PM/VM me if you ever need anything.
Love is Love it has no boundaries!
Got a Question? PM/VM me or go to my formspring and ask there: http://www.formspring.me/colie18
Ask Me Anything!!! I promise I don't bite and I will answer honestly!!!
"Everyone sees who I appear to be, but only a few know the real me. You only see what I choose to show, there's so much behind this smile… you don't even know"
Good Luck! I agree, i think you should definetley stay in education
As for names i love Caleb, (K-Leb{people seem to get it wrong:P})Or Darragh Or Edward!
"Keep your dreams alive. Understand to achieve anything, requires faith and belief in yourself, vision, hard work, determination, and dedication. Remember all things are possible for those who beleive"
"Little by little, one walks far"
"If your going through hell, keep going"
Brave, other users have mentioned it and that is the word I was looking for. I have quite a way with words and yet I find it hard to verbalize how great you really are. I have utmost respect for you. As far as names I've always liked Justin (Ahem...) or Jamie.
You honestly sound more ready to be a parent than a lot of the adults I know. I'm so sorry about what happened, but very impressed with how you're handling this situation. I think you'll be a fantastic mommy just don't ever forget how important your education is. I'm sure you're going to have to make a lot of sacrifices for your son, but please try to make sure your education isn't one of them. You only deserve the very best.
I have finacial support and also alot of money saved up from what the social and my past foster family had to pay me. I also have my foster mum who is going to help me. I am staying in full education, but just online, so I can still be at home with the baby, My foster mum also has all her old baby stuff she used for her son.
Wow you truly are an inspiration, I am so sorry that you have been forced to be an adult because so many adults cannot behave properly. I commend you for being so strong through so much.
I would think of boys names that maybe mean something to you, perhaps you want to name the child after someone who has helped you get through these hard times. They don't have to have the same name but maybe use the same initial.
Best of luck to you hun!
"Make it stop,
Let this end.
This life chose me, I'm not lost in sin.
But proud I stand of who I am,
I plan to go on living."