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LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity This forum is for you to explore your sexuality and identity, whatever that may be.
So I decided already that I'm not transgender.
But I don't know my sexuality. I strictly like women. So I'm pretty sure I'm a lesbian. but I'm questioning if I'm bisexual because I've dated men in the past. I've never had feelings for them, at all. Like none of them. I'm pretty sure that makes me a lesbian, because the women I've dated I really truly liked and wished we stayed together longer. I only picture myself in a relationship with a woman, and the song lyrics "They're so pretty, it hurts, I'm not talking about boys I'm talking about girls, their so pretty in their button up shirts" relates to me SO much.
I can't help but repeat myself
"I know it's not your fault"
Still lately, I begin to shake
For no reason at all
~ I can't handle change - Roar ~
To me it sounds like you are a lesbian. I know you said you've dated men in the past, but it sounds like you had no attraction to any of them, so it doesn't sound like you're attracted to men in general. Just because you dated men in the past doesn't change your sexuality. Also remember sexual orientation is fluid and can change, and there's nothing wrong with that either! There's also nothing wrong with experimentation, and I bet you did learn something from the men you've dated in the past, even if it's just that the attraction isn't there.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
'Cause you gotta survive
When it comes to sexuality, there shouldn't be a label on it. If you like women, great! If you like men, awesome! If you like both, wonderful! Only you can decide how you feel when it comes to genders.