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When ever i like a girl and try asking her out she says "i only see you as a friend". I'm always really nice to everyone. Girls have even talked to me when there having problems with there bf. I feel like im in the friendzone with like every girl ive ever liked. No matter what no girl will ever atleast go on a date with me. I don't know how to get a girl to like me. I feel like no one wants to cause im ugly. Everyone says the right girl will come but i feel like she never will. I dont know what to do to get a girl to like me or notice me. Does anyone have any advise that might help me.
Unfortunately, there really isn't anything you can do to get a girl to like you. You can't force that, feelings just can't be forced. Just be yourself and the right girl will come along when the time is right.
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I know you've said people have said it to you but the right girl will come along eventually. It isn't anything to do with you, it's just so far, you haven't found a girl who returns the feelings that you have for them and there isn't anything you can really do about it that other than wait till the right girl does come along.
Like they said you cant force someone to have feelings for you and you just havent found the right girl is all true. Being yourself is the best way to find a girl. But there are ways to make yourself more of an appealing guy. Being the best you that you can be. Don't censor yourself and dont apologize for who you are. But why not try meeting girls you dont know. Im sure though out the day you see alot of girls you want to meet why not go up and meet them aswell. I could write essays and stuff on how to do all of it. But dont have that kind of time If you want more knowledge on that send me a message.
But like I was saying being your natural self is the best way to find girls that like you. The most overused advice ever but its very true.
Trust me, the right girl will come along.
It isn't because you're ugly, that is only your own opinion. I've seen guys get girls because they had a great personality rather than amazing looks.
Not every girl will only see you as a friend. I know that getting friend zoned isn't something desirable, but it isn't going to happen with every girl that you are nice to, so don't change yourself to try and get girls to like you.
I agree with Jeff in that you should try and meet some new girls. Just try and be confident and strike up some conversations.
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I was in the same situation not so long ago. People are saying that being attractive (physically) shouldn't matter, but it does IMO. Yeah, you can get girls without being some super mega-stud, but if you are worried about your appearance going to the gym a couple times a week and getting a nice haircut and well-fitting clothes can make a world of difference in how people see you and how you see yourself. THAT is the only reason that you should change- to improve your own self-confidence which is KEY to getting the ladies interested. Plus, it gives you something to talk about with that cute little cardio bunny in the short-shorts running on the treadmill.
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