suspended for making out with my bf at school

[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]Hi, so I’m a 16-year-old female, and my boyfriend and I were caught making out in the school stairwell on Thursday. This was a really bad decision for both of us, and we shouldn't have done it. It was especially bad because it got a little sexual, as I was sitting on his lap. A teacher walked in, told the principal, and then they called our parents and suspended us. Neither of us expected to get suspended because we are both otherwise very good students and have never gotten into trouble for anything before.

Now my parents have grounded me, and I’m not allowed to go to school or study. We have exams coming up very soon, along with final projects, and if I don't show up, it's an automatic zero. I also have a part-time job, and my mom said that all the money I make needs to be transferred to her because I need to pay her back for the $20,000 piano she bought me, but I don't have that money.

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[Face Up.]

Hey,

I'm sorry that you're going through this! While it definitely was a poor decision between you and your boyfriend, you're a teenager and teens make silly mistakes like that.

While it's fair that you're grounded for being suspended, it seems strange that your parents aren't allowing you to study or take the exams. Maybe you can talk to them and make some other arrangements. Let them know that you really want to do well in school, even though you made this mistake, and that your grades will become bad if you don't take your exams or do your final projects. If you meant that it's the school blocking you from doing this I'd call them and see what arrangements can be made.

Maybe you can also make an arrangement about the piano, such as doing extra chores around the house to slowly "make up" for the cost of the piano. $20,000 is a lot to owe someone. Maybe she will become more lenient if you don't get into any more trouble between now and the end of the school year as well.

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Originally Posted by Face Up.

Hey,

I'm sorry that you're going through this! While it definitely was a poor decision between you and your boyfriend, you're a teenager and teens make silly mistakes like that.

While it's fair that you're grounded for being suspended, it seems strange that your parents aren't allowing you to study or take the exams. Maybe you can talk to them and make some other arrangements. Let them know that you really want to do well in school, even though you made this mistake, and that your grades will become bad if you don't take your exams or do your final projects. If you meant that it's the school blocking you from doing this I'd call them and see what arrangements can be made.

Maybe you can also make an arrangement about the piano, such as doing extra chores around the house to slowly "make up" for the cost of the piano. $20,000 is a lot to owe someone. Maybe she will become more lenient if you don't get into any more trouble between now and the end of the school year as well.

sorry i dont know how to really use this website but they arent talking at all. i tried to and my mom said to never speak to her again. everytime i do tell her i want to do well in school (im aiming for engineering) they dont believe me. im also planning on doing summer school to bring up my average and they arent letting me. this is such a mess

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[Face Up.]

No need to apologize. You’re using the website just fine
Maybe you can call the school and see what their perspective is? You can ask to speak with a guidance counselor or the principal. They might be able to talk sense into your mom if they explain that you’ll have more issues if you don’t pass your exams and projects. School is super important, and while you did make a mistake it’s something you learn from and you aren’t a bad person for making it. I’m sure you could have done much worse!

I’m sorry your parents don’t believe your goals either. Engineering is an amazing goal and I think you’d do great with it! Don’t listen to them when they put you down. It’s motivation to prove them wrong.

[Dude111]

I think its stupid the school made such a decision!!

Everyone is really over-reacting.... They could have told you not to do it in school..


Im sorry your parents are being so mean about it...


How long did they suspend you for??

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Originally Posted by Dude111

I think its stupid the school made such a decision!!

Everyone is really over-reacting.... They could have told you not to do it in school..


Im sorry your parents are being so mean about it...


How long did they suspend you for??

they suspended both of us for three days
im not able to do any of my school work either and also at school i cant leave class without a teacher coming with me
this is embarssing too because im a really good student otherwise and all my teachers were notified about the suspension and the new rule for me and now im not sure what to do. this will follow me always even into my senior year becuase beside my name itll show that ive been suspened[/size][/color][/font]

[Dude111]

Well I do hope they back off and stop this......

[Madding boy]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]Hi, so I’m a 16-year-old female, and my boyfriend and I were caught making out in the school stairwell on Thursday. This was a really bad decision for both of us, and we shouldn't have done it. It was especially bad because it got a little sexual, as I was sitting on his lap. A teacher walked in, told the principal, and then they called our parents and suspended us. Neither of us expected to get suspended because we are both otherwise very good students and have never gotten into trouble for anything before.

Now my parents have grounded me, and I’m not allowed to go to school or study. We have exams coming up very soon, along with final projects, and if I don't show up, it's an automatic zero. I also have a part-time job, and my mom said that all the money I make needs to be transferred to her because I need to pay her back for the $20,000 piano she bought me, but I don't have that money.

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oh boy, are you in a pickle. its something that's out of your control. Yes sex does wierd things to people
and at times can be a little surprising what happens when the sexual needs are kicked in. So it looks like you have to do what your parents asked you to do. Maybe get a techer to ask so you can be supervised while at school and you have to stay away from your boyfriend as needed.

That is the only thing I could say about this as you did over step your bonds with this boy. So good
luck with this and I hope you get ungrounded and do what your parents have asked of you to do and soon it
maybe all ovver. . "Yes I am agay boy and happy to share my thoughts on your
problems and try and help you with your problems. Yes do tell us and mabe we can help out."
Madding boy.