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Forum: Sex and Puberty November 12th 2019, 01:57 AM
Replies: 4
Female Advice Preferred: Sex and regrets
Views: 5,180
Posted By Brandon
Re: Sex and regrets

I'm almost 30 years old, and I can tell you that I'm not the same person I was 3 years ago. Three years is a long time, a lot of things happen, and more importantly...things change. Some things...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 15th 2019, 03:42 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 5,657
Posted By Brandon
Re: Would-be engagement/wedding ring

You refuse it. You're not obligated to take it, just like she's not obligated to give it to you. It shouldn't come down to that. If she insists, give it to someone who will tuck it away and give it...
Forum: Sex and Puberty September 2nd 2019, 12:10 AM
Replies: 4
Poll: Non-PG13: Masturbation fantasies
Views: 1,610
Posted By Brandon
Re: Masturbation fantasies

It's been proven that women are more mentally stimulated than men -- this is why women tend to prefer things like erotica, dirty talk, etc for arousal. Men are visually stimulated typically, which is...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 1st 2019, 11:13 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 6,925
Posted By Brandon
Re: Not sure of what I want

You've got a kid with your ex, and you still have feelings for your ex. Any kind of relationship you get into until you're actually ready to date is gonna be complicated. Unless the man you're dating...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 26th 2019, 03:18 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 7,107
Posted By Brandon
Re: How to not get ahead of myself

The fact that you're an emotional train-wreck at the moment and you later mention that "J" is an active self-harmer is a fuckin' recipe for disaster. If I remember correctly, you have/had issues with...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 5th 2019, 02:39 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 7,271
Posted By Brandon
Re: Struggling - 20 and single

You don't respect women. If you respected women, you'd be upfront with how you feel about your best friend and you wouldn't settle for being just a best friend. She sees you as a best friend, which...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 10th 2019, 04:57 AM
Replies: 5
Triggering (SH): We broke up
Views: 1,286
Posted By Brandon
Re: We broke up

The harsh reality of love is that there's nothing poetic about using someone's affection to forget that we have problems. The problems don't go away; they just get swept under the rug when we get...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 19th 2019, 03:46 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,439
Posted By Brandon
Re: Insecurity

What's prompted the insecurity? You say lately, so what's set you off? How is your insecurity with the relationship connected to your job?
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 27th 2018, 03:51 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,152
Posted By Brandon
Re: lonely

First of all, I don't know if it's my computer, but your text HTML is not working. I've noticed this on a lot of your posts and I'm gonna be the one to say it that that shit is annoying. So that'd be...
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 17th 2018, 04:01 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,150
Posted By Brandon
Re: He saved me

Truth be told, that is a very negative mindset to have. With that amount of reliance you have on someone, it'll ultimately destroy you if something were to happen. You're basically setting yourself...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 30th 2018, 03:33 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,102
Posted By Brandon
Re: Complicated :(

Don't mess with married men and you won't have complications. If you're finding it difficult to be friends with the guy, then friendship is something you can't handle and you gotta go pursue someone...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 18th 2018, 03:44 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,232
Posted By Brandon
Re: Forever Alone

You're only 19, as you've said. I was afraid of never losing my virginity, never finding love, etc etc. Now I've had loads of sex, been in a two year relationship, and now engaged to a woman I've...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 16th 2018, 04:30 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 886
Posted By Brandon
Re: Jealousy.

You're not jealous; you just don't know how to deal with uncertainty. Consequently, you deal with the uncertainty by assuming something bad is going to happen. And you do that by making up things...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 10th 2018, 01:49 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 886
Posted By Brandon
Re: Jealousy.

Question: Is this relationship what you'd consider to be your first love? Answer that question, and I can give you a better response.
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 4th 2018, 04:36 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 878
Posted By Brandon
Re: I don't know what to do!

You're 15 years old. Either it works out, or it become a valuable life lesson. Either way, it's a win win. People will always spread rumors; true or false. At the end of the day, you don't know how...
Forum: Education and Careers September 3rd 2018, 02:11 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,864
Posted By Brandon
Re: Tips to surviving high school

1. Ideally, homework is supposed to help you figure out what you need help with...so that when you go over it in class, you can ask questions and figure out what you did wrong. It's supposed to guide...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 26th 2018, 04:27 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 976
Posted By Brandon
Re: girls my age only go for goodlooking guys

It's because you're jealous. You're jealous that someone is better looking than you are, so you're over-dramatizing the situation by claiming that women only go for good looking guys 99% of the time,...
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 30th 2018, 03:45 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 764
Posted By Brandon
Re: Kissing a boy with a girlfriend

You're guilty, but you're not bad. The issue isn't with you; it's with the dude. The dude was in a committed relationship, and as much as you desperately threw yourself at him, he was not obligated...
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 22nd 2018, 06:37 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 898
Posted By Brandon
Re: being single bothers me now

Self-confidence, self-respect, self-love and patience are prerequisites to relationships. If you don't have those, you get sloppy. When it comes to online dating, patience is huge because you gotta...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 21st 2018, 03:52 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 827
Posted By Brandon
Re: Sexually misaligned

[/B]I can't speak for poly relationships, but I will say that in a healthy monogamous relationship, when something has changed in the relationship that makes a noticeable difference to you, the ball...
Forum: Friends and Family March 17th 2018, 07:11 AM
Replies: 3
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): What the heck is my brother doing?
Views: 797
Posted By Brandon
Re: What the heck is my brother doing?

When my sister stabbed me in the back by becoming best friends with my ex-girlfriend, I learned a hard lesson: only I can control what I can control. Just like my sister is going to go off and do her...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 17th 2018, 06:43 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 666
Posted By Brandon
Re: How do I approach this conversation with her?

I always got where you were coming from, but I guess the ultimate question I'm asking you is why? See, I'm not poly like you are. I don't understand the decisions you make. How can someone accurately...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 16th 2018, 05:34 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 613
Posted By Brandon
Re: How to find a boyfriend and what is considered healthy?

All right. Well, first off...you're 17 years old. When I was 17, about 11 years ago, I thought I knew all kinds of shit because I was about to graduate high school and get into college. I...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 16th 2018, 03:58 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 666
Posted By Brandon
Re: How do I approach this conversation with her?

Absolutely not. I'm defining asexuality in the context of your life. And your life is far from asexual! In fact, there's asexual, and then there's Jordansexual. You've probably done more sexually...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 14th 2018, 05:21 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 666
Posted By Brandon
Re: How do I approach this conversation with her?

My first thought is this: vanilla, asexual relationship? Then why make it a relationship at all? If it's vanilla and asexual, what exactly are you trying to get out of the relationship that can't be...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 13th 2018, 03:53 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 719
Posted By Brandon
Re: Boyfriend wants to sleep with other people

First and foremost, you don't have threesomes with your friends. Typically, you have threesomes with people you don't know and most likely will never see again. With your boyfriend's desire to have...
Forum: Technology and Gaming February 4th 2018, 03:01 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,056
Posted By Brandon
Re: CS:GO

I used to play CS:GO religiously about a year ago. I never played competitively; I just played casual. My favorite was office.
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 4th 2018, 02:57 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 527
Posted By Brandon
Re: Long Distance Tips

If you've got a vehicle, then a few hours shouldn't be a problem. Ya'll can meet halfway and go on a date somewhere every week, or every other week. And if you've got nothing planned, you can drive a...
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 2nd 2018, 06:21 AM
Replies: 5
Triggering: I hate her friends
Views: 635
Posted By Brandon
Re: I hate her friends

Two months into the relationship, you've already had a few hiccups but yet you see believe you'll be together for a long time? Hmm....all right.



If you're dating, you're not friends. Friends...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 9th 2017, 06:17 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 820
Posted By Brandon
Re: Friend date vs. "date" date

Most women aren't direct with their intentions, and I guess it's understandable in a social perspective. I'm a man. In the dating game, I've been messed around with on numerous occasions with women,...
Forum: Sex and Puberty August 18th 2017, 05:46 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,981
Posted By Brandon
Re: Boyfriends penis still causing problems

Pour 2 teaspoons of salt on the condom. It minimizes slippage and allows the condom to stay on.
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 18th 2017, 09:40 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 669
Posted By Brandon
Re: Crush on a friend (but she has a boyfriend!)

If you want to do what a man should do, then you should stop messing around with another man's chick, find someone who is actually single, and compatible with you. As a man, you don't fall in love...
Forum: General August 14th 2017, 07:11 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 982
Posted By Brandon
Re: I suck at this whole driving thing.

I've been driving since I was 14 years old. I'm 27 now. That's 13 years. I drive a stick-shift. No problem with traffic, merging, etc. However, I'm terrible at parallel parking. Why? Because I...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 14th 2017, 06:58 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 677
Posted By Brandon
Re: I've fallen in love with another girl

If you're happy in a relationship, you're going to do your best to avoid putting yourself in situations that could jeopardize the relationship. I'm willing to bet that you haven't addressed the whole...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 8th 2017, 04:18 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,313
Posted By Brandon
Re: How to finally move on?

Your attitude toward yourself is absolutely terrible.

Let's just assume you're the ugliest 16 year old dude in the world. No woman would even dare look at you, because she would instantly throw...
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 31st 2017, 03:53 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 666
Posted By Brandon
Re: This isn't working for me

I think you and I can both agree that regardless of what kind of dating lifestyle you believe in, you date people with the intention on growing something with that person. Most of us aren't looking...
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 10th 2017, 06:44 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,018
Posted By Brandon
Re: How do I get my partner to last longer?

As a woman, all you can do is be supportive. And by being "supportive," I mean letting him have his 30-second victories. For now. This dude has been very recently plucked. You introduced him into the...
Forum: Lifestyle May 29th 2017, 05:38 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,287
Posted By Brandon
Re: Being prepared.

My girlfriend and I are planning on buying a house next year when our apartment lease is up. I haven't really thought about preparing for the future in that aspect. However, I am starting to get...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 29th 2017, 04:27 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 954
Posted By Brandon
Re: hook ups?

To make a long story short...if you want to screen your partners, you're going to have to be patient, and be willing to cycle through all the B.S. in order to get what you want.

One night...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 25th 2017, 04:26 AM
Replies: 4
Female Advice Preferred: Worried I'm not attractive
Views: 632
Posted By Brandon
Re: Worried I'm not attractive

You're 15. You build on attractiveness. As you get older, you figure out what looks good on you and what doesn't. If you're not satisfied with the way you look, figure out what kind of things you CAN...
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