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Search: Posts Made By: Shanielle
Forum: Self Harm September 1st 2012, 04:44 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 816
Posted By Shanielle
She didn't understand at all

My mom found out a couple of weeks ago but it was only because someone else said it. She just went off on me and wouldn't even consider the idea of a therapist because she thinks it is a "spiritual"...
Forum: Self Harm July 24th 2012, 06:20 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 718
Posted By Shanielle
My mom saw...

My mom saw the scars on my arms. She saw I was going to wear a long sleeved shirt in public and she ordered me to change, then she examined my arm. I thought for sure I was busted, but she asked me...
Forum: Why Me? November 26th 2011, 12:57 AM
Replies: 4
Triggering (SH): Yeah, black people cut, too.
Views: 663
Posted By Shanielle
Angry Yeah, black people cut, too.

I was looking through my dashboard on this other site when I saw this person I follow had got a question from an anonymous person asking her if she could believe that black people cut too, then...
Forum: Eating Disorders November 13th 2011, 10:46 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 801
Posted By Shanielle
I want to starve...

I don't know where to put this exactly, so I'm putting it here. I feel addicted to my cutting and sometimes I feel suicidal but I haven't tried to kill myself. The worse thing is is that lately...
Forum: Self Harm October 30th 2011, 02:08 AM
Replies: 1
Triggering (SH): Why Am I Smiling?
Views: 606
Posted By Shanielle
Why Am I Smiling?

I had a pretty confusing day. I went to the store and when I saw this pack of razor blades, I had to buy them. Being around them made me lightheaded and I thought I was going to pass out, so I...
Forum: Self Harm October 22nd 2011, 12:24 AM
Replies: 1
Triggering (SH): Am I Addicted?
Views: 595
Posted By Shanielle
Am I Addicted?

Alright. I kind of don't want to put this up here because I've said this before, but I feel like I am losing control. I hate saying that because it makes me sound like an addict and I am in denial...
Forum: Self Harm October 22nd 2011, 12:10 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 890
Posted By Shanielle
Re: For the sake of it

This happens to me everyday.
Forum: Self Harm October 12th 2011, 09:44 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 674
Posted By Shanielle
Re: Reactions

Well, I won't try to tell you to stop since you don't want me to, but I think it is good that you don't care what people think, because as you know your reasons for doing it isn't for attention, and...
Forum: Self Harm October 12th 2011, 09:37 PM
Replies: 6
Triggering (SH): Obsessing or having rituals?
Views: 1,091
Posted By Shanielle
Re: Obsessing or having rituals?

I use to have this ritual of putting lotion on it and spraying the wounds with hairspray afterward, but I don't really have much of a ritual now. Definitely don't do the hairspray thing at all...
Forum: Self Harm October 10th 2011, 09:19 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,515
Posted By Shanielle
Re: Self-Injury dedicated blogs - What do you think?

I go on Tumblr, and I see a lot of blogs like that. I come right out and say that isn't what I'm going to do and that I don't encourage it. I try not to follow blogs like that because it is...
Forum: Self Harm October 9th 2011, 03:25 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,344
Posted By Shanielle
Re: Do you think she noticed?

I had a time when I was caught by an office lady. I asked to have two band aids for my cuts and even though I had them covered she made me show them to her before she gave them to me. Later that...
Forum: Self Expression October 8th 2011, 06:55 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 504
Posted By Shanielle
Nana Loiselle

The old woman, called by all Nana Loiselle, smacked her wrinkled lips with such a unladylike loudness that my mother could not help but give a disdainful sigh. I hid my smile behind the tower of...
Forum: Self Harm October 8th 2011, 05:40 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 821
Posted By Shanielle
Re: PLEASE Help, I don't know what to do...

I think that as far as helping goes, you are doing the right thing. You are there to support him and that's good. You don't have to go looking to tell his parents, but you could mention the idea to...
Forum: Self Harm October 6th 2011, 10:42 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 802
Posted By Shanielle
Excuse Me?

My lunch friend keeps being strange. She actually asked me Tuesday if she could use one of my blades. Of course I said no, but later on we were talking about how in Biology we were going to dissect...
Forum: Mental Health October 2nd 2011, 01:27 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 629
Posted By Shanielle
My Dad is Schizophrenic

I wanna put this in my blog, but if I do no one is going to read it, not really, so I'm putting it here. Well, I was concerned my father had a mental illness and it is official: he does. He's not...
Forum: Self Harm September 24th 2011, 04:21 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,950
Posted By Shanielle
Re: Questions for FREQUENT self harmers only! have i gone too far?

I'm cut several times everyday, but I haven't passed out from blood loss yet. It is something that scares me about doing it everyday.
Forum: Self Expression September 22nd 2011, 12:02 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 267
Posted By Shanielle
Re: Letter To My Friend

I didn't know where to put this, so I put it here. Maybe one day I'll find the courage to show my friend this post. For now, I'm going to try to do what I said I would - ask her to tell me her...
Forum: Self Expression September 22nd 2011, 12:00 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 267
Posted By Shanielle
Letter To My Friend

Dear Hurting Friend,

You can trust me with your secret. I will understand.
You do it too, don't you? You can deny it, but I can see it, see those red marks and the dirty reminders they leave. ...
Forum: Self Harm September 21st 2011, 12:23 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 880
Posted By Shanielle
Re: Scars

I didn't use to hide them, but since one of my friends asked me if I cut, I'm going to hide them most of the time.
Forum: Self Expression September 20th 2011, 12:15 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 319
Posted By Shanielle
Re: Best Friends Through Pain

This is the first story I've been able to write in a long, long time. I just hope it doesn't sound like some lame entry.
Forum: Self Expression September 20th 2011, 12:13 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 319
Posted By Shanielle
Best Friends Through Pain

She is crying. My best friend, my beautiful ray of sunshine in a dark and cloudy world, is crying. She says she doesn't want to deal with the pain. She says she wants to die. I never knew she...
Forum: Self Harm September 17th 2011, 06:38 PM
Replies: 74
Views: 3,888
Posted By Shanielle
Re: How do you feel when you see your scars?

When I look at the scars on my wrist I find I hate them because I can't let them fade, I'm attached to them somehow. When I get done cutting and look at fresh cuts I'm always amazed that I'm doing...
Forum: Why Me? September 17th 2011, 06:22 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,172
Posted By Shanielle
Cutting For No Reason?!

So I recently found out about a bunch of other people who cut, and it would make me sad if most of them weren't doing it for no reason. Instead, it just pisses me off. Like this one girl who's...
Forum: Self Expression September 15th 2011, 11:18 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 395
Posted By Shanielle
The Girl I Cannot Draw

I haven't written in a while, and I'm no poet, so forgive me if this poem makes no sense.

The Girl I Cannot Draw

There is a girl that's in my mind
Try as I might I cannot find
The strokes...
Forum: Religion and Spirituality, Science and Philosophy September 12th 2011, 10:32 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 619
Posted By Shanielle
Uhh....

What do you call it when you believe there is a god but don't believe in him (or her or it) yourself, because that is where I'm at. I used to be a Christain, but now I feel nothing spiritually. I...
Forum: Mental Health September 12th 2011, 09:31 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 707
Posted By Shanielle
Re: My dad might be bipolar

Never mind, I'm overanalyzing. I'll take it one day at a time with him, thanks for the information anyway.
Forum: Mental Health September 10th 2011, 07:21 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 707
Posted By Shanielle
My dad might be bipolar

I do not have a mental health problem, but I am afraid my father does. A couple of days ago he started going into this state where he wasn't himself and would switch from being calm to being in a...
Forum: Self Harm September 10th 2011, 07:14 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,080
Posted By Shanielle
Re: self harm for small reasons

I cut for small reasons. Sometimes there is no reason - I just want to do it.
Forum: Books and Literature September 6th 2011, 11:00 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,650
Posted By Shanielle
Re: The Best and Worst of Required Reading

The best books are the ones my class are reading this year, Lord of The Flies and To Kill a Mockingbird. (Is it considered cheating since I've read these books at least twice already and have them...
Forum: Self Harm September 6th 2011, 10:45 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 982
Posted By Shanielle
Re: why did i say that?

I've had times when I almost blurted out that I cut. It is something you think about a lot and something no one is supposed to know about, but sometimes you forget to keep secrets a secret. Just be...
Forum: Self Harm September 6th 2011, 10:40 PM
Replies: 1
Triggering (SH): Stupid...
Views: 527
Posted By Shanielle
Stupid...

I can't believe it. I cut my wrist in a new place, even though I promised myself I wouldn't cut my arm except in the same three places. One of my scars started to fade and for some reason I cut it...
Forum: Self Harm September 1st 2011, 08:38 PM
Replies: 9
Female Advice Preferred: Really hurting.....
Views: 885
Posted By Shanielle
Re: Really hurting.....

Cutting is not your only option. There are other things you can do, and I hope you try to find another way because once you start it's hard to stop.
Forum: Self Harm September 1st 2011, 01:01 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 3,621
Posted By Shanielle
Re: Is self harm normal?

I think it is common, but I don't know about it being normal. It's more common than you'd think. I know two other people at my school who do it... But that doesn't make it better.
Forum: Self Harm August 23rd 2011, 09:19 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,263
Posted By Shanielle
Re: I'm so guilty... help me move past this?

You shouldn't feel bad about anything. I think it takes tremendous strength to not cut for two months. Almost everyone has relapses, you just have to tell yourself that it's OK to start over.
Forum: Self Harm August 23rd 2011, 09:14 PM
Replies: 8
Female Advice Preferred: i want to cut...
Views: 940
Posted By Shanielle
Re: i want to cut...

I get what you're saying, and I know you want to do it, but you should try to resist that feeling. I know, I used to hate when people told me not to do it, but it is the best thing to do. Once you...
Forum: Self Harm August 22nd 2011, 09:23 PM
Replies: 4
Triggering (SH): Denial
Views: 704
Posted By Shanielle
Denial

Would it be dumb if I said that I used to deny cutting myself, because if it is then I guess this going to be the dumbest thing you've read. When I first did it, it was like I knew in a way what I...
Forum: Self Harm August 17th 2011, 11:33 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 465
Posted By Shanielle
How I Feel

I feel so alone and so hopeless. I hate myself, I hate life in general. I hate the way my parents treat me like a prisoner, and I hate the way school makes me feel so insignificant. I cannot...
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