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Forum: Sex and Puberty July 4th 2011, 06:02 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 690
Posted By Furubasu
Red face Going further?

So basically, neither me or my boyfriend have any sexual experience. He pulls away when we're making out after just a few minutes (I'm pretty sure this is why, at least) so he doesnt get an...
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 3rd 2011, 04:59 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 617
Posted By Furubasu
Valentine's Day Playlist

The title is only half the problem >.< haha. So my boyfriend loves classic rock, but we haven't been dating long so for Valentine's Day I was going to make him a playlist and include a lot of rock on...
Forum: Relationships and Dating January 20th 2011, 04:00 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 5,279
Posted By Furubasu
Crush's birthday?

So, basically, there's this guy I like and I'm pretty sure he kind of likes me. Okay, I know so. My friends called him and put him on speaker, which is a terrible idea, but I was half asleep when...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 17th 2010, 03:53 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 613
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Mixed Signals?

Alright, thanks :)

We've been getting to be better friends lately, it's pretty clear to both of us that we get along well, it's just getting to know each other better that we're working on.
...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 17th 2010, 02:20 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 613
Posted By Furubasu
Mixed Signals?

I'm asking you guys this because while ordinarily, I would assume he doesn't like me and my friends are liars because they're nice, I'm also dealing with depression and I'm supposed to be working on...
Forum: Eating Disorders October 19th 2010, 03:46 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 536
Posted By Furubasu
Please help now

My best friend was recently diagnosed with Body Dysmorphic Disorder and she just admitted to me she's been trying to throw up but it doesn't work. What do I do?
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 17th 2010, 05:21 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,353
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Do you believe true love is hard to find?

I personally believe love doesn't exist. Hate to be the downer here but...

Hey! :D haha. Shit happens?
Forum: Depression and Suicide September 11th 2010, 10:23 PM
Replies: 2
Triggering (Suicide): Lost......
Views: 416
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Lost......

Please don't kill yourself. I don't know why you don't think you have choices, but believe me, this is a big one. You can choose not to kill yourself right now. Just stop yourself.

I understand...
Forum: Depression and Suicide September 10th 2010, 04:10 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 461
Posted By Furubasu
Re: i hate it hear

I'm sorry to hear you're going through a tough time. However, I'm glad to hear your girlfriend is there for you. Keep in touch with her, since she can make you happy :)

Even if you hate the guys...
Forum: Depression and Suicide September 10th 2010, 02:22 AM
Replies: 1
Triggering (Suicide): I Can't Do It
Views: 450
Posted By Furubasu
Re: I Can't Do It

I can understand how you feel, but please reconsider. I can't make you do anything, although I wish I could tell you how amazing I think you are. You said you like to sing and write, or at least that...
Forum: LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity August 30th 2010, 02:42 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,279
Posted By Furubasu
Re: LGBT Webcomics

I love Venus Envy, personally >_< It's online, just google it and it should come up. I'm really behind as I haven't read in a few months and don't know where I left off, but it tackles issues fairly...
Forum: LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity August 30th 2010, 02:40 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 712
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Coming out to friends?

It's good you feel you're ready to come out to at least a few people :) Chess seems to have given great advice and I'll I'd be is repeating, but I just wanted to add a little note: if anyone asks you...
Forum: LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity August 30th 2010, 02:36 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,157
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Scott Pilgram vs the World - Gay representation.

I haven't yet seen it, so I can't really comment, but...

From what it sounds like, it probably is a fairly bad representation of the gay community, which sucks. However, it is a comedy as far as I...
Forum: LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity August 30th 2010, 02:30 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,963
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Are girls okay with guys being bisexual?

It really does depend on the person. I don't have a problem with it at all, but one of my best friends who is slightly homophobic would probably have a problem with it. Most of my friends, as far as...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 29th 2010, 12:38 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 382
Posted By Furubasu
Re: depresson?

Oh and to add (I always forget) I used to SH and still do sometimes and then forget about it.

I try to keep a journal, so thank you for your advice :) I haven't written in a while but I'll try to...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 29th 2010, 12:37 AM
Replies: 6
Triggering (Suicide): I want to go...
Views: 698
Posted By Furubasu
Re: I want to go...

You're worth it because I haven't met you yet, and even if things are tough now, they can get better and you'll meet new people who don't want to harm you at all and just want to love and appreciate...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 29th 2010, 12:28 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 382
Posted By Furubasu
depresson?

so basically I'm fairly sure I show a lot of signs of clinical depression and I don't know who to turn to.

-I get sad and upset for minor things or for no reason at all for long periods of time...
Forum: Death and Grieving August 28th 2010, 03:52 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 473
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Esther

I feel the very same. Esther rocked worlds and changed lives just by being there. I feel so suckish. I'm almost the same age as her and somehow I get to live but she doesn't. Esther makes me want to...
Forum: Death and Grieving August 28th 2010, 03:27 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 473
Posted By Furubasu
Esther

You might not have known Esther. I didn't know Esther. I knew of her and was a follower online. That's about as far as our real world relationship goes. But here's how it went for me:

Esther...
Forum: Rape and Abuse August 19th 2010, 09:00 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,285
Posted By Furubasu
Re: I'm the only one who knows. Am I responsible for anything?

Thank you, Sarah. I'm usually aware of when I need to back out of things, so I'll keep your advice in mind if I don't feel capable of dealing with certain problems she has. She said she doesn't...
Forum: Rape and Abuse August 19th 2010, 01:37 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,285
Posted By Furubasu
Re: I'm the only one who knows. Am I responsible for anything?

Thank you for your help, but we're talking now (er, emailing) and it apparently goes farther than that. She's not ready to help herself yet because she's really busy trying to help her boyfriend...
Forum: Self Harm August 19th 2010, 01:01 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,742
Posted By Furubasu
Re: My family doctor makes me want to cut myself instead of restraing from self harm

Firstly, I'm really proud of you for being able to stop cutting and recognize that it's like an addiction! It really is, and, because I'm a dork, from what I can understand it IS an addiction,...
Forum: Rape and Abuse August 19th 2010, 12:39 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 632
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Friend A Victim Of Domestic Abuse

It sounds to me like you're doing the right thing by being there for her. If she wants to talk to an adult about it or seek help from authorities or school administration, let her know you'll be...
Forum: Rape and Abuse August 19th 2010, 12:23 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,285
Posted By Furubasu
I'm the only one who knows. Am I responsible for anything?

So there's a problem with two of my best friends. One (whom I will call Mary) and the other (whom I will call Jane) are both real sweet people. A while back, Mary was dating Jane's older brother....
Forum: Self Harm August 8th 2010, 03:40 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 584
Posted By Furubasu
Dreams

So last night I had this dream where I was at school eating lunch with my friends (normal, right?) and all my friends who know I used to cut were there. They asked me to explain why I used to cut...
Forum: General June 21st 2010, 02:56 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 3,521
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Brother's 18th Birthday Present - Help?

hmmm... nah, he doesn't have a DS. I think he more likes the idea of Pokemon rather than actually playing it. When he does play it, it's usually a secret, played on his PC, seen by only me and his...
Forum: General June 21st 2010, 02:41 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 3,521
Posted By Furubasu
Arrow Brother's 18th Birthday Present - Help?

So my older brother and I are fairly close [:hug:] and he's going to be off to college this fall. I'm going to be out of town :nosweat: and coming back two days after his 18th birthday. I know he...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 16th 2010, 12:31 AM
Replies: 11
Female Advice Preferred: Girls on guys from 'broken homes'
Views: 2,236
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Girls on guys from 'broken homes'

It's not a turn off, at all. It's simply a part of a person. If she wants to get to know you, she'll be willing to listen and will not find it whiny or complaining. You might not want to go too deep...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 16th 2010, 12:25 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 590
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Some help would be nice

Does he know about this? If not, would it be a problem to talk to him about it? If he's been your best friend, surely he'll understand. It seems that taking things very slowly would be a good idea.
...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 16th 2010, 12:06 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 734
Posted By Furubasu
Re: i like someone younger then me. . .

I think you've gotten enough on the shirt stuff and all...

6 months/he dated someone younger before? Don't worry about it. One of my best guy friends is dating a girl 3 grades ahead of us in...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 12th 2010, 02:31 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 758
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Good date locations

Drive to a local pond/beach/lake/park and lay out on a blanket and count stars.
Mini-golf xD
One of those self-serve yogurt places
Invite friends to the park and play some little kid game
If you...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 12th 2010, 02:00 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 546
Posted By Furubasu
Re: I think I love him

I know how much it hurts to have your heart broken, but if you feel like you have to tell him you love him, just do it :)
A creative way (stolen from the Clique books) is to burn him a CD of songs...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 12th 2010, 01:55 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 7,783
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Innocent girls attract not so innocent guys?

I think everything has been said, but basically, if you attract a type of guy, it doesn't mean you have to find them attractive back. Just start hanging out with the crowd of people you find guys in...
Forum: Chit-Chat May 12th 2010, 01:50 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 424
Posted By Furubasu
Random Rant

Completely random rant that isn't like I had a bad day, I just wanna vent it out :)

Guy issues: I really like this guy but no one's sure if he likes me back although he sure as hell acts like he...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 12th 2010, 01:46 AM
Replies: 3
Male Advice Preferred: How to Tell if a Guy Likes you?
Views: 1,576
Posted By Furubasu
Re: How to Tell if a Guy Likes you?

Thanks for the fast reply :)

More info I just remembered: I'm not entirely sure what the details are, as I missed half the conversation, but apparently he thinks I'm "better [missed this word]...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 12th 2010, 01:40 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 632
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Am I "selling" myself?

You're not selling yourself, although it might feel as if you are selling yourself out. I don't think you're shallow, but perhaps looking for the wrong attention that you need right now. It might be...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 12th 2010, 01:35 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 555
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Getting over him, eh, not so easy

I think it'll be possible to be friends with him again, but after a while. I'd wait at least a few weeks (preferably about 2 months) before being super close with him again. It'll take a while to...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 12th 2010, 01:33 AM
Replies: 3
Male Advice Preferred: How to Tell if a Guy Likes you?
Views: 1,576
Posted By Furubasu
Arrow How to Tell if a Guy Likes you?

I'm having issues with a guy at school. I'll explain the sitch in the next paragraph, but in case anyone wants to know what the question is without asking - how do you tell if a guy likes you? Is...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 11th 2010, 01:06 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 809
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Cultural Differences

I don't really mean to be stereotypical, but I grew up in one of those oddly mixed households with VERY stereotypical parents - Dad's an ex-navy buff, Mom's the stereotypical Asian immigrant mom....
Forum: Mental Health April 29th 2010, 04:24 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 750
Posted By Furubasu
Re: Extreme Freak Out

Nothing this extreme has ever happened before, but I felt really dizzy afterward and sometimes I randomly feel dizzy. So... I shouldn't be extremely concerned?
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