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Forum: Sex and Puberty June 7th 2015, 01:41 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,082
Posted By Strummer
Re: Religous Help. Catholic. Does this need a Prefix?

Not to get into a debate about religion and morality, but masturbation in moderation can be a normal human behavior, but you have to choose the behavior you want to adhere to.
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 7th 2015, 01:32 PM
Replies: 8
Male Advice Preferred: Sexual Fetish
Views: 1,295
Posted By Strummer
Re: Sexual Fetish

It may just be debating the use of a word, but I don't know that your interest in physical exams is a fetish unless you are making an appointment and going in every month for a check-up. Some...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 30th 2015, 02:38 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 6,117
Posted By Strummer
Re: I'm 14 and i watch porn

As mentioned, at your age, you are both curious and starting to feel sexual, so porn is a ready channel into the possibilities. One danger, as I see it, is if you watch porn and masturbate...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 16th 2015, 02:15 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,353
Posted By Strummer
Re: Worried that I will never lose my virginity (male)

Start out at a lower level. Join a hobby club or group at school, a library, or even a church where there are females around your age. Get involved in the group and at the same time, get to know...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 15th 2015, 12:05 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,125
Posted By Strummer
Re: Anal sex

Just like anything else, some people (including females) like it and some don't. The anus can normally expand to a great degree. As mentioned, anal intercourse has to be taken slow and with...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 2nd 2015, 09:44 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 739
Posted By Strummer
Re: Is this normal?

I cannot add to the right answers already given except to join in and say that your feelings are totally normal. But don't even think of intercourse at your ages.
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 25th 2015, 05:38 PM
Replies: 4
Non-PG13: My little sister
Views: 1,705
Posted By Strummer
Re: My little sister

How old are you? Nothing should happen if your sister tells your parents, since they should understand that a guy is going to masturbate once in a while. They might be more concerned that you are...
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 25th 2015, 05:30 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 803
Posted By Strummer
Thumbs up Re: It's happened again is it time for a sexual health check?

Yes, to ease your mind, get checked out.
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 25th 2015, 01:30 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,213
Posted By Strummer
Re: Why boobs are so attractive?

Body differences are interesting, often sexually exciting. Overall, the female body differs from the male and vice versa. The female breasts are very different from the male versions and come in a...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 6th 2015, 11:24 PM
Replies: 17
Female Advice Preferred: Crush had awkward boner
Views: 11,337
Posted By Strummer
Re: Crush had awkward boner

Oh, you were in PE . . . . No, I doubt that he'll think you're a skank. You're just being female, and he's being male. http://www.teenhelp.org/images/icons/icon12.gif
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 6th 2015, 01:02 PM
Replies: 17
Female Advice Preferred: Crush had awkward boner
Views: 11,337
Posted By Strummer
Re: Crush had awkward boner

You say you "felt his erect penis touching my butt". I don't see how this is possible if he was wearing clothes, unless your school is clothing optional, but it's a guy's daydream come true. It...
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 28th 2015, 10:34 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 20,531
Posted By Strummer
Re: Burning lips after Oral Sex

I may be stretching here, but I wonder if your symptoms could be a reaction to soap or body wash? Normally, you would not allow soap on your lips nor into your mouth, but as you gave your boyfriend...
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 28th 2015, 10:21 PM
Replies: 3
Male Advice Preferred: So I did have that ultra sound...
Views: 776
Posted By Strummer
Re: So I did have that ultra sound...

Good you had the ultrasound done, but I would think that your doctor, whoever ordered this test, would discuss the results with you and suggest further steps, if any. When I've had ultrasounds done...
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 26th 2015, 12:58 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 852
Posted By Strummer
Re: How to get over fears about sex?

You say: "Seeing a therapist/doctor is not really an option." However, in my opinion, that is your best option. Talking you situation over with a professional counselor would be a big help to...
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 15th 2015, 03:44 PM
Replies: 10
Non-PG13: Anal Sex Questions
Views: 1,278
Posted By Strummer
Re: Anal Sex Questions

As mentioned, use of lubricant is mandatory. He should take it slow with just the head of his penis inserted. From there, he should go slow and only go in so far. More could be said, but you...
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 15th 2015, 03:36 PM
Replies: 10
Female Advice Preferred: Problems w/ Puberty
Views: 1,329
Posted By Strummer
Re: Problems w/ Puberty

Other gals will offer you puberty advice, but from a guy's point of view, many of us, young and old, see an otherwise slim gal with a big butt as very attractive. Just let nature take its course and...
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 12th 2015, 11:41 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,167
Posted By Strummer
Re: Is this normal for a 19 year old?

In my opinion, how you describe yourself is completely normal. You may, and probably will, develop sexual interests as time goes on, depending on your circumstances, but right now, carry on as you...
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 24th 2015, 10:19 PM
Replies: 14
Male Advice Preferred: My bf doesnt like receiving oral
Views: 1,112
Posted By Strummer
Re: My bf doesnt like receiving oral

Your gender isn't indicated, but I'm guessing you're female. You've been going with your boyfriend for six years, but have you been giving him a blow job for six years or is this something you've...
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 24th 2015, 10:06 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 996
Posted By Strummer
Re: Worried about my ultra sound

Your feelings are understandable, as this is something new for you. I've had a couple of ultra-sounds--one on my side and one on my neck. As mentioned, the tech just moves a wand around on some gel...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 30th 2014, 10:22 PM
Replies: 4
Male Advice Preferred: Penis curved to the left
Views: 966
Posted By Strummer
Re: Penis curved to the left

As long as you can get an erection and it isn't painful, that is a good. It could be Peyronie's disease, and if you haven't had a check-up with a family physician in a year, ask your parent to set...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 24th 2014, 03:25 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 3,682
Posted By Strummer
Re: I'm starting to get worried about my penis size

A lot of good advice has been offered here. There's nothing wrong with you, and there is no need to see a doctor, but if you want professional advice, you could ask your parent to set up a check-uo...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 16th 2014, 12:04 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 15,616
Posted By Strummer
Re: I'm 17 and a virgin and I am sexually frustrated

Beyond the good advice already given, I would emphasize just being around other people outside of the classroom. Do you have any interests or hobbies that could lead you to joining a coed group or...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 13th 2014, 09:11 PM
Replies: 27
Male Advice Preferred: Okay...I have a question
Views: 1,539
Posted By Strummer
Re: Okay...I have a question

Don't get hung up on blaming yourself. We can all look back in hindsight and wish we could have done certain things differently. Your post is not stupid, because there is no stupid questions here,...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 13th 2014, 08:56 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,340
Posted By Strummer
Re: Inability to Properly Ejaculate

As mentioned, you seem to have gotten into a habit when doing things on your own, so that now with your girlfriend, it's difficult to do things differently. If you have some private time and she is...
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 6th 2014, 12:30 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,191
Posted By Strummer
Re: I'm a guy and just really confused. Beware of sexual content.

This may or may not happen in the future, depending upon if the two of you found yourselves in a similar situation with the two of you alone in a room with the parents gone. Also, you were tired...
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 2nd 2014, 09:32 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 921
Posted By Strummer
Re: question for parents

Beyond what has already been said, you could download one of the various software programs to any computer that he would use that will block most x-rated sites.
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 29th 2014, 08:48 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 790
Posted By Strummer
Re: Errection Problem

As already mentioned, it's distractions and nerves. It's often called "performance anxiety". Why bother with the hassle? Stick with what works. Make foreplay the endplay and both of you get off...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 23rd 2014, 12:51 PM
Replies: 13
Male Advice Preferred: giving head?
Views: 1,585
Posted By Strummer
Re: giving head?

There's some good advice here. You can cause your boyfriend to ejaculate by oral, but you may have to do some changes in your technique, however minor. He may be able to tell you, but even he may not...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 21st 2014, 12:34 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 9,273
Posted By Strummer
Re: Im scared to get fingered...?

As others have mentioned, do not do this in the school stairwell or any other place where there is any chance that you will be noticed. Whether indoors or out, you need a place where you can relax....
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 17th 2014, 10:06 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,009
Posted By Strummer
Re: Don't Want to Give Oral

You say you haven't been in a sexual relationship. A lot can change if you find Mr. Right. Here, you are mentioning oral sex, but there are a variety of ways to be sexual with someone. Ask yourself...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 7th 2014, 12:46 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,130
Posted By Strummer
Re: is it justified for me to sell this to a boy?

I understand that certain guys want a gal's used underwear as sort of like a trophy, an intimate piece of clothing with the gal's scent of her privates. For these guys, it might be the next thing to...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 3rd 2014, 09:04 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 6,545
Posted By Strummer
Re: Losing virginity to an escort.

I don't know your particular situation as far as any involvement with making friends in school, job, hobbies, church, sports, and so on, but I would rather you work on going after "any connection...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 3rd 2014, 08:42 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 11,891
Posted By Strummer
Re: is it ok to orgasm during massage therapy?

It is ok by me, but depending upon the various laws in your country, state, etc., someone in law enforcement might be concerned. Having an orgasm crosses a line from a therapeutic massage to sexual...
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 27th 2014, 12:45 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,378
Posted By Strummer
Re: how do you stop erections from having orgasms?

There is more than one question here. Of course, everyone is different. I would rather have one good erection and ejaculation than two, because the quality is better, but that is me. Also, I would...
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 27th 2014, 12:09 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 698
Posted By Strummer
Re: Invading sex thoughts when I don't enjoy it?

It sounds like your thoughts or fantasies are better than the actual physical stimulation, that is, sex. I would think that this is quite common until one has that loving partner that can live up to...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 3rd 2014, 03:28 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 531
Posted By Strummer
Re: Confused about what I want

Rather than be all in or all out, could you see this girl within a limited range relationship? If so, you should explain your intentions on this to her, so she will know what to expect going forward....
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 30th 2014, 12:52 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 13,330
Posted By Strummer
Re: My boyfriend doesn't want to eat me out. Why!?

"Me and my boyfriend have done pretty much everything but sex and he hasn't eaten me out either . . . "

By "sex" here, do you mean intercourse? Also, you don't mention your ages, as sometimes it...
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 28th 2014, 06:00 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 812
Posted By Strummer
Re: Advice

You don't mention your ages, but this is a case of the body not doing what the mind wants it to do. You could be suffering from performance anxiety as you worry about doing it perfectly with this...
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 26th 2014, 04:06 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 4,076
Posted By Strummer
Re: my friend asked me if i want to see his erection?

It sounds like you have an interest in seeing his erection, and since your first post, you have seen it and touched it. For your sake, I would be firm with him (and yourself) and stay within your...
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 16th 2014, 12:14 PM
Replies: 15
Female Advice Preferred: Spanking?
Views: 1,908
Posted By Strummer
Re: Spanking?

How does she approach other sexual behaviors? It seems there are some gals that enjoy having things done to them by the guy but do not want to take an active role of doing things to the guy.
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