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Why do I do this? - October 24th 2012, 07:51 PM

Why do I constantly stay hung up on people who walk out of my life and leave me on the curb like yesterday's trash? Why do I constantly give people chance after chance after chance to make things right? All that comes of it is me being hurt in the end, these people are obviously poison for me and yet I go back again and again. Then I end up alone, more depressed and suicidal all over again. Why can't I break this cycle? Why do I hold such compassion and love for people?


Here's to you, fill the glass. Cuz the last few nights have kicked my ass.
   
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Re: Why do I do this? - October 25th 2012, 03:34 AM

i think being kind and thoughtful is a quality that many ppl just dont understand due to many thing ,,but if you dont take of yourself first and give your all your energy to others with no appreciation you will dry up...with time you will see who is worth your kindness and who is a user.And the users they cant stop you from being a dental soul and i hope you never allow them to loose that ,because there are so many ppl in your life now and the future that will REALLY need you and will need your encouragement.dont let the others take that from you !!! remember ppl can only do things to you if you ALLOW them,,,you need a give and take friends....not ones that deplete you....they then win......you are to strong for that,,,,,take care my friend!
   
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Re: Why do I do this? - October 25th 2012, 09:19 AM

I feel like I've been tapped out. I feel dead and empty inside. I'm sick of the feeling, all I want to do is curl up under my blankets and never leave


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Re: Why do I do this? - October 25th 2012, 12:43 PM

Because you don't know how to guard your heart. Never lose those good qualities, just learn whom to give them to.


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Re: Why do I do this? - October 25th 2012, 02:48 PM

The fact is that it took me a long time to let my guard down for anybody. And specifically one person because I had been hurt before and they earned my trust. And everything was great for so long. I'll never let anybody in again now


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Re: Why do I do this? - October 25th 2012, 08:58 PM

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The fact is that it took me a long time to let my guard down for anybody. And specifically one person because I had been hurt before and they earned my trust. And everything was great for so long. I'll never let anybody in again now
That's your decision...but the only person who is going to be hurt by you never letting anyone in, is you. You can get hurt either way, except one is a guarantee and the other isn't. And the guaranteed one is a lonely road, while the other one can have many good things happen.


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Re: Why do I do this? - October 25th 2012, 09:40 PM

The thing is, how do I know that this won't happen again? If I shut everybody out it can't. I can eventually heal and will never have to worry about it again. That's all I want is to know that somebody won't do this to me again


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Re: Why do I do this? - October 26th 2012, 10:14 AM

It sounds like you are a really good, kind person who just puts your trust in people as you think everyone is the same as you. This isnt a bad thing at all, in fact id say you are a genuine person which is something to be proud of in itself Iv been through the same things many times and Im at a stage in life now where I accept that not everyone is as nice and honest. Honestly, all you have to do is move on from these people and the experiences they bring you, its all a learning curve, atleast from these experiences you will be able to work out if someone is genuine more easily now. You will meet these types of people all throughout your life, you just have to leave them behind and focus on good people that you will meet too
   
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Re: Why do I do this? - October 26th 2012, 10:40 AM

I've known one of these particular people for a very long time. We have been through so much together, we started off as best friends and realized there was so much more than that after failed relationships with other people. We realized we had what we wanted in each other all along and just couldn't see it. I ended up dating this girl for three years and proposed to her. I had everything I wanted and needed. She changed though. We had both been hurt and promised never to do that to each other. I let my walls come down and everything was fine. It's not anymore, Irdk what I am going to do, I'm shattered


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