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Depression and Suicide If you or a loved one is feeling depressed or suicidal, you are not alone. Talk with other users about your feelings here.

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Reasons for suicide.. - January 3rd 2013, 06:15 PM

I am in such a bad mood and state of mind today... I'm so lonely.. ):

Reasons why I want to die..

-No real friends
-Nothing significant about me
-No one notices me
-Eating disorder is too hard to deal with
-So many losses
-I'm too sensitive
-Everyone has it better than me
-Everyone is two faced
-Life in general is just so hard and complicated.. You eat, you get fat, to be thin requires so much pain and hard work.. everyone seems so much happier than I am.. I just wish I could be happy. Maybe if I was thinner, I'd be happier. When I'm alone, I feel like a loser with no friends. When I'm with friends, I feel like I'm faking my happiness. I don't know what to do.. sometimes I just feel like it'd be better if I was dead..

Reasons why I want to live..
-undecided


Sorry if I seem whiny.. it's just how I'm feeling right now

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Re: Reasons for suicide.. - January 3rd 2013, 07:28 PM

Reasons to live:

-You can make friends.
-You're a brave, strong individual
-I've noticed you
-Things that are easy aren't always worth having.
-There is so much to gain.
-Not everyone has it better than you and just because it's hard now, doesn't mean it will be forever.
- Some people in the world are loving and caring
-You are cared about
- You have a future

Eating doesn't make a person fat. Over eating, binging and so on, can make a person gain weight. If you eat healthily and exercise healthily, you'll maintain your weight. Being thin isn't anything special or nice. Being severely underweight is painful, it does not cause happiness. I've only known it to cause sadness and misery. Imagine not being able to climb a set of stairs or not being able to sleep. Imagine because so cold all of the time, it's causes you so much pain. Besides, weight does not define a person. You can be underweight or overweight, you are still you.

Trust me, not everyone is happier than you are. And not everyone has it better than you. Sure, some have it "better" but some have it a lot "worse". However, just because someone might be going through more than what you are, doesn't mean you're not entitled to feel low or sad. We all go through hard times and go through difficult situations but we can also learn from them, over come them and beat them.

Some people don't like to be alone and I think that's okay. Just remind yourself when you are alone, about all the things you do with you friends and how you spend time with them, which clearly means you're not alone. And I'm sure that your friends would want to be able to be there for you and to support you through this so maybe you could talk to them. Not all of them, maybe just one you feel closest too. You don't have to suffer in silence.

Just because things are not good right now, doesn't mean they will be this way for ever. But if you want happiness, if you want to feel better, you have to work for it and you have to stick it and but if you do, you will get there and I assure you, you'll be so glad you never gave in.

You're not on your own in this, okay? We're always here if you want to talk. Stay smiling.


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Re: Reasons for suicide.. - January 3rd 2013, 08:09 PM

Thank you very much.. <3

The only thing is I don't feel like I have close enough friends to chat to about this.. I'm thinking about joining a youth group to maybe meet someone going through a similar situation.

Thank you very much though<3
   
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Re: Reasons for suicide.. - January 3rd 2013, 08:22 PM

I'm glad you've gone to this forum for support There are many reasons to live.. It took me a while to find them but i'm there nearly and I still hate life sometimes, But we all do.

Here's some quotes to help you. Say these out loud everyday when you wake up.

"Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself."


"Every new day is another chance to change your life.
Life is made up of years that mean nothing and moments that mean it all."


And I've seen it in the flights of birds
I've seen it in you the entrails of the animals
The blood running through, but in order to get to the heart
I think sometimes you'll have to cut through, but you can't

We will carry
We will carry you there

Just keep following
The heartlines on your hand
Just keep following
The heartlines on your hand
Keep it up, I know you can
Just keep following
The heartlines on your hand 'cause I am
   
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Re: Reasons for suicide.. - January 3rd 2013, 08:52 PM

Joining a youth group sounds like a brilliant idea! I used to go to one when I was younger and it was great. It's a brilliant way to meet some new people and to get out of the house too!

We're always here though. If anything is bothering you and you'd like to talk to us about it, you're more than welcome too.


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Re: Reasons for suicide.. - January 3rd 2013, 09:07 PM

The only youth groups in my area are Catholic ones that teach kids about religion and God and I'm not really into that.. What kind of stuff did your Youth Group do?
   
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Re: Reasons for suicide.. - January 3rd 2013, 09:13 PM

Lot's of things. Most weeks we spent at a hall, doing activities like karaoke, dancing, board games, just sitting and talking and so on. Some weeks we went to one of the leaders house and played tennis because she had some courts and we even went to do things like going to the reservoir and and doing water skiing and banana boating. It was really good. Could you look into groups/clubs that your school offer as well?


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Re: Reasons for suicide.. - January 3rd 2013, 09:32 PM

Sounds like fun. I live in a 6000 population town.. we don't have much. And my school definitely does not have much. I've looked into counseling but I'd really just like someone around my age to talk to who is going through some similar stuff.
   
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Re: Reasons for suicide.. - January 3rd 2013, 09:49 PM

That was when I lived in a village of a population of about 2000 I get what you mean though. Do you have friends from school that you can talk too at all? If you ever want a chat, you're more than welcome to send me a message. I'd be more than happy to try and help you if I can in anyway.

Stay safe. <3


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Re: Reasons for suicide.. - January 3rd 2013, 10:32 PM

Thank you, and I don't know.. I have friends but they aren't really my best friends. I don't feel like I'm close enough to talk to them about this and I feel like they wouldn't know what to say. I just wish I had a best friend. Which is why I want to meet someone around my age going through the same thing. I'll do some looking around too see if there are any groups. Thanks for your help. <3
   
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Re: Reasons for suicide.. - January 13th 2013, 10:00 AM

Hey, Cassie!

Jessie has given you amazing support and I really couldn't say what she said any better. I agree with her. I just thought I'd post and say that you seem really sweet and I believe in you. You can do this and you're a beautiful person.

I'm here if you need me!

Stay Strong <3

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