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RE: How can i say something ? - February 18th 2013, 07:30 PM

Hi well everyday for the past couple of weeks now i wake up and i think "wow why am i still here?" i've been thinking about saying something but like most men i don't say anything i just live with the problem but it's been getting too much. i usually joke around with it to myself but that's my way of making it real, first it's a joke "wow you didn't do that? you should kill yourself" is what i'd think about myself and well i thought about telling my mother but i don't have a great relationship with her i only talk to her for around 15minutes or less per day.

so that's my question how would i tell somebody who never believes i'm serious that this is what i want. i'm almost 20 and she keeps telling me "what are you going to do then?" like i'm supposed to have some answer. well i do have an answer and i'm just working up to it.

i mean it's kinda pathetic that i can't even just call my local gp and go see the doctor but i don't even know what to say on the phone never mind talk to the doctor when i'm there so. idk.


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Re: How can i say something ? - February 18th 2013, 09:34 PM

I'm sorry that you're struggling with these thoughts. I know it's really hard to reach out and admit that you need help, but I think that it would be a good choice. Could you maybe write down what you want to say to your mom, and/or doctor? And then call them up and read it to them, that could be helpful. You could also, always just send your mom and email or write her a letter.

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Re: How can i say something ? - February 18th 2013, 10:28 PM

Well, I'm not the best at talking to doctors either but booking an appointment shouldn't be hard. You just say, hi I'd like to book an appointment and mention the name of your gp. Writing it down would be good. As for when you're there, just say you've been feeling very down and suicidal lately and they'll understand.

Oh and I totally get what you mean about the not saying anything. Being a guy can be tough sometimes.
   
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Re: How can i say something ? - February 18th 2013, 11:39 PM

thanks for the responses im supposed to write some feedback or something so when i think of what to say i'll edit this reply.


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