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Exclamation I CANT TAKE LONELINESS ANYMORE - August 5th 2016, 04:24 AM

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I WANT TO DIE SOMETIMES I FEEL AWFUL ALL I EVER WANTED WAS A FRIEND THAT UNERSTOOD ME. AND RELATED FOUND THE FRIEND AND LOST HIM 😭😭😭
   
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Re: I CANT TAKE LONELINESS ANYMORE - August 5th 2016, 09:21 AM

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I'm really sorry to hear that you lost your friend. That must have been hard to take. Friendship is really a important part of our lives and you wanting to have that relationship is good, too. Making and keeping friends however, may not be particularly easy. Especially when we're starting to grow and change and things that made sense once, doesn't now. If you're ever worried about having a friend, you have all of us here. You needn't go looking. You just need ask, perhaps

It may seem like not living will solve the problem, but it doesn't really do anything. It leaves behind a lot of pain. You have so much to live for and you have so much more to see and do - some wonderful years ahead of you. Don't give up on making friends. You'll find someone who is perfect for you. Certain friends will come and go, but when you find your best friends, they're the ones who are going to stay. We're always here for you. There are so many lovely people on here and I'm sure they'd all agree when I say we'd be very happy if you consider us your friends.

For how long have you been feeling like you want to die? Is there a particular reason or have you just been feeling that way? Do you think it might be a good idea to talk to your school counsellor about this?

Hope things get better.

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Re: I CANT TAKE LONELINESS ANYMORE - August 5th 2016, 10:28 AM

Hi there,

I'm so sorry to hear you lost your friend. Often friends become like our family and it's so tough to lose them. But the great thing about friends is that you can choose who you want to be your friend, and sometimes it just takes a little time to find the right person. Friendships can be really hard to make, especially when you're only a teenager, but they do start to form, and you may not even realise but I can promise you will end up an amazing friend who will be able to understand and help you. But for now we are all here to help you, and honestly this is the best bunch of people, so just introduce yourself and you will meet some amazing people!

For now, I would say find someone to talk to. An adult - your parents, another family member, a councillor - just so someone knows you are having a hard time. It's really important someone knows, so they can help you get through this, because although living might seem like the harder option, it's honestly the best option. You have so much to live for, you are only young and there is so much to see and do. You will truly find an amazing friend, someone who cares about you and this friendship will be lasting.

I hope things get better but in the meantime I, and many people on TH are here to help you.

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Re: I CANT TAKE LONELINESS ANYMORE - August 5th 2016, 10:43 AM

Hey there,

I'm really sorry that you're going through this, and I know how you're feeling about finally finding someone you think understands you. But what I've learnt from my experience is that there will always be someone else who can understand you and be your friend, and they may even be the last people you'd expect. I'm sorry that you think you've lost your friendship, but if you found him, you'll most definitely be able to find another person too.

I know that it is tough right now and dying may seem like the only way out, but there's so much else you have to look forward too in life. Don't let this one experience bring you down, but let it make you stronger and give you the strength to push on to better days in your life. I promise you that it will get better. I promise.

If you ever feel lonely, there is everyone here on TeenHelp who is willing to talk to you. The people on here are truly amazing, and everyone struggles with different things, so no one will ever judge you for how you're feeling or the things you say. There are also various hotlines in numerous countries that offer support, and there are, of course, your family members who will always be there for you.

I hope this helped and feel free to PM me if you ever need to talk!

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