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It's not ok... - October 16th 2016, 08:15 PM

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Hi, again, I feel this is the only place where I can discuss this..

When I was about 6-7, and my brother, about 3-4, were both lying on a rug to take a nap. And we were facing each other. My stepfather then lied to my mother and said we were kissing like a couple, but we were not.
I had to lie and say I did, so my mom would leave me alone. Shortly after, she found a cord and whipped me with it, and my stepdad was happy about it. After she beat me, she called her friend and gossiped/bragged about it.

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I want to get revenge on my stepfather..some how..
   
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Re: It's not ok... - October 16th 2016, 08:48 PM

I'm so sorry that that happened to you. I'm also sorry that the adults who knew about it did nothing to intervene and protect you. That's not ok at all. Are you in a safer living space now?




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Re: It's not ok... - October 16th 2016, 09:17 PM

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I'm so sorry that that happened to you. I'm also sorry that the adults who knew about it did nothing to intervene and protect you. That's not ok at all. Are you in a safer living space now?
I still live with them, they don't hit me as much now..
   
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Re: It's not ok... - October 17th 2016, 02:48 PM

I'm so sorry Danyea. That is awful. Is there anywhere safe you can go? Any relatives?

I went through something similar with my parents. I want you to know you can always talk to me. Even if I can't help, I can listen. I wish there was something more I could do to help you.


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Re: It's not ok... - October 17th 2016, 04:26 PM

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I'm so sorry Danyea. That is awful. Is there anywhere safe you can go? Any relatives?

I went through something similar with my parents. I want you to know you can always talk to me. Even if I can't help, I can listen. I wish there was something more I could do to help you.
I have the internet, so, I have no other places to go.

Thank you, I will tell you about any other incidents.
   
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Re: It's not ok... - October 19th 2016, 09:13 PM

This sounds like abuse. Is there an adult you trust at school that you can talk to about this? It is so important for you to feel safe at home. The incident you described is not ok.
   
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Re: It's not ok... - October 21st 2016, 06:56 PM

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Thanks for coming to us here at Teenhelp!

I am sorry for what you have been through and what you are going through. It sounds really tough. Do you have a trusted adult that you feel you can talk to about all of this? Its always hard to know and understand the depth of what is going on over the internet but you should not be being treated this way what so ever and someone can help you but you have reach out to them. A teacher, a school counselor or your doctor etc are great people to go to who can help you to get this to stop as well as emotionally support you through everything is is and has happened.

And remember you're not alone so if you ever need us then we are always here for you no matter what. Don't suffer in silence, we care too much.

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Re: It's not ok... - October 31st 2016, 08:44 PM

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Thanks for coming to us here at Teenhelp!

I am sorry for what you have been through and what you are going through. It sounds really tough. Do you have a trusted adult that you feel you can talk to about all of this? Its always hard to know and understand the depth of what is going on over the internet but you should not be being treated this way what so ever and someone can help you but you have reach out to them. A teacher, a school counselor or your doctor etc are great people to go to who can help you to get this to stop as well as emotionally support you through everything is is and has happened.

And remember you're not alone so if you ever need us then we are always here for you no matter what. Don't suffer in silence, we care too much.

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I don't have any other adults to talk to, and if I say that I feel abused to my mother or father, they will just get angry at me.....to tell the truth, I am more emotionally abused than physically, but they both hurt equally.
   
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Re: It's not ok... - October 31st 2016, 08:57 PM

I am so sorry that this is happening to you. Do you have any friends you could talk to about it?

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