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I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 6th 2016, 04:51 AM

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I am already kind of sick of being forced to live. I want to die, and die horribly. I want this pain to end. Her loss is too painful... and coming from someone who just wanted a good best friend to spend time with, getting that person and then losing that person is fatal. I want life to end.

I want myself to end.

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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 6th 2016, 04:58 AM

I know it took a lot for you to reach out the first time, and you're probably afraid of starting over with a new person and having it not help again, but you can always find a new therapist if your current one isn't helping you.


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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 6th 2016, 05:01 AM

It didn't take a lot. I just want to prove a point to my parents that a therapist won't help. What I want is a best friend the way she was to me..

heh well.. I was overprotected and didn't get to mix around last time. So if I end up killing myself because of this.... I guess you could say its a bit of a lesson..

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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 6th 2016, 05:03 AM

Mate,
Give it some time. And listen, yes it hurts loads. It really does. But killing yourself won't help. If not for yourself, think about parents, or friends. THey need you too. Don't give in


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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 6th 2016, 05:18 AM

I've already thought about that in some way. But its still painful .

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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 6th 2016, 05:44 AM

It won't work if you don't try. you're just trying to prove it won't work, so it won't.



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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 6th 2016, 09:54 AM

.. it hurts a lot without her..

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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 6th 2016, 11:24 AM

I know it hurts. Use meeting the therapist as a way to move on. It'll take time, but you can do it.


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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 6th 2016, 01:38 PM

I know it isn't the same as losing someone through death because she is still alive, the two of you just aren't friends anymore. But you still have a loss right now so I'm wondering if you can do something to honor her and for closure. You can write her a letter without sending it (or burning it) or light a candle to remember the friendship for what it was. Because whether it ended or not, you had a connection before that and it may help to do something special in that way.


I'm also not saying you have to do just one thing and then be over it either. I'm just saying for now, small acts may help
   
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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 6th 2016, 02:49 PM

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So this points out to me:

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I just want to prove a point to my parents that a therapist won't help.
I am a big believer that something is only going to work if you let it, want it and work hard and it seems that with the therapy you are having, you are only allowing it not to work and working hard to prove your parents that it won't help. Maybe now is the time to actually work hard in therapy. Be honest and open, take advice and support and learn skills to manage in order for there to be a chance that having the therapy will help, instead of ensuring it won't help to prove this point.

Therapy can really help people but a person in therapy has to work hard at it too. Try to engage in it etc. This is here to help you, nothing else. And remember we're always here too.

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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 6th 2016, 04:43 PM

I'm trying my best already. But the thing is that... I wanna have good friend around who I can spend a lot of time times with again. Its just extremely tough right now...

I want that friend.


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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 6th 2016, 05:15 PM

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I'm trying my best already. But the thing is that... I wanna have good friend around who I can spend a lot of time times with again. Its just extremely tough right now...

I want that friend.
You can find that friend. But as we all have been through or will go through, certain friends come and go. Some stay, others don't. Sometimes the ones closest to us are not the ones who stick around and it's part of life. I feel you need to validate how you feel and slowly but surely begin to radically accept this.

Have you thought about doing things to make new friends? I know at the beginning it isn't going to feel the same, but in a few months down the line, it might be the best thing ever for you.

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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 7th 2016, 03:46 PM

I'm trying to alreadys. But its still extremely tough. When people around me ask me how am i? Its taking all I got to not tell that I am one tiny push away from jumping down a skyscraper.

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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 13th 2016, 06:06 PM

Hey Darren,
You aren't obligated to see a therapist you don't like. It is important to find one that fits. If this one isn't helping, drop this one and find a new one.
Peer support has been helpful in my recovery, a process which I'm still working through years later. I found peer support to add a certain dimension to "treatment" that had been helpful so far
This includes peer-run support groups that you can attend in person. I highly encourage you to give it a try.
   
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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 13th 2016, 06:35 PM

I'll probably try that... Peer support might probably help me a little.

I'll have to consider that...

Btw, I've tried to meet new people around where I am . But that closeness is not there. I don't know what to do.. I miss her.


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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 13th 2016, 07:04 PM

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I'll have to consider that...

Btw, I've tried to meet new people around where I am . But that closeness is not there. I don't know what to do.. I miss her.
Great! Glad you'll consider it. It is about what works for you.

Making friends surely takes time.

What's important to keep in mind is that, your friendship with her was one thing and that's separate from the any of the relationships you'll have or currently have. No two relationships are alike. Try not to expect the new friends to be the way she was, if that makes sense. Remind yourself that you're looking for new people, set your intention to be open to different kinds of people.
   
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Re: I'm seeing the therapist and it's not helping. - November 17th 2016, 02:43 AM

I guess so. But the truth is that it'll be very tough. I want someone who's as close and as friendly to me as her.

Things are tough and I'll admit i nearly decided to kill myself on saturday,


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