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Don't know what to do anymore - July 7th 2009, 09:09 PM

Well for the past seven months now my life has been going way down hill.

About six months ago things ended with my girlfriend of two years and well she kinda was my life im said things went that way.

I now have NO friends whatsoever,I have no money,no job and within three months i am being kicked out of my home.

Im really not sure on where to start fixing it all, I feel so heart broken yet i have so much that i need to work out and do.

Having only my computer in witch i spend hours and hours wasting time i'm well really lonely.

I don't really know why i said the things i have just said im not sure i can be helped i guess i just needed someone to know.


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Re: Don't know what to do anymore - July 8th 2009, 09:38 PM

Hey Joe,

I'm sorry to hear that things have been really tough for a while. Break ups can be really hard, especially with long relationships. But please remember that while someone may be an important, central part your life, they are not all of it. You and what you still hope for and your happiness are a pretty big part of it, too. Your life matters all on its own, regardless of whom may or may not be in it.

As for the friends - maybe try finding something you could do in a group that involves one of your hobbies? For example, things like art classes or a cycling group or something like that, or even volunteering (which doesn't require any money).

Maybe try using some of those hours on the computer to look for a job? Maybe even one involving computer skills?

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Re: Don't know what to do anymore - July 9th 2009, 02:31 PM

Thanks dancer

Yeah i was thinking about starting some new hobbies maybe getting back into my music , Job wise yeah i could spend some hours looking for a job

Thank you for some advise and a better outlook.


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Re: Don't know what to do anymore - July 10th 2009, 03:40 AM

Anytime, Joe Here's to things looking up!


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