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Unhappy i give up - July 10th 2009, 01:01 AM

i need some advice. i want to give up. but i don't. help anyone?
   
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Re: i give up - July 10th 2009, 01:44 AM

Hi Erika.

I think that it might be a bit easier for us to help you if you were to provide us with a few more details on your situation. What is making you feel as if you want to give up? Try to think of all of the things that have had a negative impact on your life in the past few months or so, and simply write them down. You may get more help that way, and it could be a good way to get things off of your chest, which may very well make you feel a lot better.

I understand that you are obviously having a hard time right now, but realize that whatever is going on is not worth your life. You still have a fighting chance, and I'm sure you are a very strong person, and are going to get through this just fine. And you're not alone in it either :]





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Re: i give up - July 10th 2009, 02:24 AM

Aw hun why do you wanna give up? you got your whole life ahead of you and if you give up now you won't get to live it out I know sometimes we hit rough spots but those rough spots eventually go away and we get past them just hang on and know that their are people here that care about you and want you to suceed...if you ever need to talk feel free to PM me


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Re: i give up - July 10th 2009, 05:54 AM

Hey Erika,

It takes a lot to want to give up, but continue. Even if you don't want to give up - when things get hard it takes a lot to keep going. You should be proud of yourself, for reaching out and asking for advice. It's confusing sometimes, how we feel inside. Sometimes, we're so close to giving up while others we're just determined to go forward. I know it's tempting to give up. It's easy, it's quick - but it will always end the same. It will never get better. If you continue, you'll have so much more of a chance to be happy. You'll have options and different exciting events to come. I think you should keep going. Along the way, ask for help and take a rest but don't give up. You have too much going for you to give up. You're throwing away a whole life if you give up. And your life isn't set in stone yet. If you need anyone to talk to, let me know. You're not alone in this and we're all here to support you.

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Re: i give up - July 10th 2009, 06:02 AM

Hey,

It's a good thing that you don't want to give up. I know that it's hard when you wanna give up but at the same time you know that you can't actually "give up," it's tough. But you're strong and you can get through this.

When I want to give up, I always do something that I enjoy doing or talking with somebody that I know can help me out.
Can you do something like that?

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What seems to be bothering you so much, you can always talk about it! I'm always here as well, just shoot me a pm if you would like to chat.
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Re: i give up - July 10th 2009, 06:15 AM

Hey there,

I am so glad that you are reaching out for help; I think that shows that your really don't want to give up, a small part of you really wants to hang on. I want you to know that things will be okay. I know things may be tough right now but they can and will get better.

Do you know what is causing you to feel this way? Maybe if you shared it with us we could better help you(You could pm one of us too if you want to do it more privately). If you don't feel like talking to one of us what about a friend or family member? Sometimes figuring out what is bothering you and then talking about it can be really helpful.

Also, have you ever considered talking to a counselor or someone like that? Those types of people can be helpful because they can sometimes have better tools and they give you someone to talk to more regularly and that might help a lot.

Please hang in there and I hope this was helpful. Also, my pm box is always open.


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Re: i give up - July 10th 2009, 04:15 PM

my ex boyfriend let his best friend rape me and i feel so bad about myself. my family hates me and dosen't love me or care about me.


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Re: i give up - July 10th 2009, 04:47 PM

i'm sorry that must have been awful.
did you ever tell anybody about it, if not i really think you should!
but it's not your fault, so don't ever think that it is.
i know it's but eventually those feelings will start to go away....

why do you think that your family hates you and doesn't care?


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Re: i give up - July 10th 2009, 09:29 PM

they yell at me all the time


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Re: i give up - July 10th 2009, 09:42 PM

have you tried talking to them.
i know it sucks to be yelled at all the time my parents can be the same way, it doesn't mean they hate you though.
try talking.
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