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Exclamation what can I do? - May 15th 2010, 09:47 AM

my boyfriend is feeling really stressed. its nothing but arguing and yelling in his house. He gets the blame for everything even though sometimes its his own little brother. and its come to the point today he left angry and went on a walk well he has a heart murmur and its been fine until now he said it has gotten worse he couldn't breath and his chest, shoulders, and neck started to hurt. (now this part I found out by sneaking on to his facebook page) he said he went to the doctor to make an appointment and the doctor suggest that it was his heart murmur getting worse or a sign of an heart attack. I fond it wrong that he wouldn't tell me that he said he wished it was a heart attack so he could die because no one would miss him. and he was talking to his friend it pissed me off because i love him and besides his mother I would miss him more but he didn't tell me anything and hes been having panic attacks making him stress more. he tells me nothing.
   
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Re: what can I do? - May 15th 2010, 05:28 PM

I think you need to make it clear to him that you care about him and that you will be there for him no matter what, and that you'd feel better if he opened up to you. It could be that he doesn't want to tell you because he is afraid of losing you. I am sure he will feel a lot better if he knows he can confide in you. Also, stress might very well make the condition worse, it may help him to stay with you if possible rather than let him remain in this problematic environment which appears to be the cause of this trouble.
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