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and just when you wonder, could it get any worse.. - July 6th 2010, 01:23 PM

i need help. really bad. what am i supposed to do? this "friend" is going round destroying peoples lives. making up rape. and acting violent towards me etc. this is major and crazy. what do i do? its making me freakn suicidal.
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Re: and just when you wonder, could it get any worse.. - July 6th 2010, 02:13 PM

I think if you know he's being this abusive to people, you should talk to police about it, before he does something even worse. I know he's your "friend", but sometimes you have to do what you think that is right, and what he does isn't right.
Ask police not to tell him who accused him, because he can get mad at you :/
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Re: and just when you wonder, could it get any worse.. - July 6th 2010, 02:15 PM

Can you try talking to your mate about how they are making you feel? Or to other people around you who can maybe have a word with the mate?
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Re: and just when you wonder, could it get any worse.. - July 6th 2010, 11:55 PM

Honestly? Cut yourself off from them. I had a friend who made up abuse, told a bunch of other lies, and faked mental illness, and it drove me mad.

She would act like a total bitch and tried to trivialize problems that didn't involve her to focus attention entirely on herself.

Seriously, I got upset when I broke it off with a guy I had dated for over 3 years, but that wasn't nearly as big of a fuss as a break-up with a guy she had been with for less than a month was.

These kind of people are not worth the aggravation they cause. Once I got rid of that "friend", I felt sad at first, but it was much better over time.

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Re: and just when you wonder, could it get any worse.. - July 7th 2010, 01:50 AM

You have to give them an ultimatum. Get help and change ,or I'll never talk to you again. Try and sit down with them and tell them what they're doing is hurting you and others. If they're a real friend they'll try to find help and change. Remember if they try to get help and try to change then they really want your friendship and you should be there to support them, because getting help and changing isn't always the easiest thing. But if they don't even try then you have to cut them off, it may be hard, but you have to do what's healthy for you, and not try and babysit someones ego.
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