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It hurts... - June 19th 2011, 01:27 AM

It hurts so bad, I can't even enjoy the things I love. I just want it to stop. I am not strong enough to get help because I am to scared. It is so unbearable... Why do I keep feeling this way?? Sorry I just needed to get that out.
   
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Re: It hurts... - June 19th 2011, 01:38 AM

Don't apologize for the way you are feeling. It is not your fault. Emotions are things out of our control.

We really don't mind you letting things out. In fact that is a very positive thing.
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Re: It hurts... - June 19th 2011, 02:03 AM

Thanks Lizz, Love ya too. It's just so hard right now. ughghg.
   
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Re: It hurts... - June 19th 2011, 07:36 AM

Being afraid doesn't make you weak, it makes you human. I promise that all problems will end and that you're fully capable of getting help, it's just a matter of time until you ease into the thought and are willing to do so. Everything's going to be alright and I know you can make it through whatever issues you're facing


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Re: It hurts... - June 19th 2011, 08:02 AM

I've felt like this before...and I couldn't find away to make it go away..but i ended up finding what I was missing..which for me was support from someone who loves me and I love..maybe this is way off of what you may want..but I think if you find what's missing you might not feel that way anymore...hope that helps:3


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Re: It hurts... - June 19th 2011, 01:05 PM

Maybe it will. I just can't get out of this hole. I just am tired of not being able to be normal.
   
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Re: It hurts... - June 19th 2011, 05:03 PM

I completely understand. Are there specific problems causing this or is it just your general behavior at this point?


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"Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it."
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Re: It hurts... - June 19th 2011, 06:00 PM

both, It has continuously gotten worse for me, and now my pain is just unbearable. I don't want to live like this anymore but yeah I can't get help as said previously I am scared.
   
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Re: It hurts... - June 19th 2011, 06:16 PM

Hey sweetie,

Don't worry about being scared, it's a normal thing. Everyone is scared of something. I know exactly how terrifying it can be to reach out and ask for help - it's something I struggle with myself. The reason you feel this way, I would say, is because deep down you know how much it'd help if you could reach out, but then on the other hand you're probably worried about how your parents/friends/ect would react. But you need to keep in mind that people care about you and want you to be happy, no one is going to yell or scream at you for having troubles and asking for help.

Again, I believe you're taking crucial steps by getting used to people on here and beginning to open up and seek help. It's a major first step, be proud! you'll get through this! Eventually you'll get comfortable enough here that you'll begin to open up to the people in your everyday life. It's not going to happen overnight, but you'll get there!

As always, don't hesitate to PM/VM me if you want someone to talk to. Best of luck sweetie!


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