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My parents hate me - December 2nd 2011, 05:12 PM

What do I do when all my work is neglected by my parents. Whatever I do just isnt good enough for them . And whenever I dont do it they start bitching about how useless I am. I'm in highschool, I have a 3.6 gpa and I'm having suicide thoughts lately. I've talked to them about this. But whenever I leave the room they start again. The only people that are proud of me are my friends and cousins. And this isn't just with me either. They do the same to my younger brother
   
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Re: My parents hate me - December 2nd 2011, 09:50 PM

Hey Greg, sorry to hear about your parents. For now I think you should try and focus on the positive feedback off your friends and cousins. It might be that your parents do care about the effort you put in but aren't sure on how to show you? As for your younger brother getting the same treatment from them as you are, I suggest you try and say positive things to him to stop him feeling unhappy about his efforts as well. Please try not to think about suicide, i know it may seem really hard for you to handle pressure of school and family issues but there is always something good to come.

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Re: My parents hate me - December 3rd 2011, 01:52 AM

I know how this feels i have been living with it all my life with my parents. I know the feeling of just wanting them to see all the work that you put into making your life something great! You have to do these things for yourself and be proud of yourself. If they arnt going to recognize you for what you are then you need to soak up the praise from the people who do see and respect what you do.

You are so awesome for wanting to make others proud of you this is even harder when you feel the way you do. So be proud of yourself that your doing so well and you are winning at the game of life. Just remember you ARE awesome and you dont need other people to tell you this cuz you know you are.

As for your younger brother tell him how proud of him you are every chance you get coming from you the big brother is going to mean the world to him.

So keep being awesome for yourself and those who really care about you. Rock on!



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Re: My parents hate me - December 3rd 2011, 02:06 AM

This is exactly what I'm goin through so I know how you feel they alleys seem to focus on my sisters and never me no mateer what the circumstance
   
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