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So many problems - December 21st 2011, 06:22 PM

So here's the deal....

I have a lot of things going on at the moment.
Firstly my mom has diabetes. She got diagnoised in April. It's hard to deal with because I put other things in my life on hold to make sure shes okay. It's horrible to see my mom go through something like this.

Secondly my 2nd youngest sister has ADHD and that is really hard to cope with. I care for her a lot when my mom is unwell or working. She is very abusive and violent and has put me in hospital 4 times this year

Thirdly, there is a lad that I have fallen for. He is absoulatly amazing and I think that we could be a really good couple. He has said that he wants to be with me but nothing is been done about it. We've been seeing each other for about 2 months and I wan things to move on now.

It's too much to cope with and my friends are noticing now that something is wrong. I dont know what to do now...


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Re: So many problems - December 21st 2011, 10:38 PM

ok darling, im sorry to hear about your mum. you should be so proud of yourself for being there for her, that is such a noble thing to do, i look up to you, and im sure she does too. but you need to be able to have a life of your own too, you need to be able to vent your feelings and release certain frustrations. with your sister having ADHD i think you should go and see someone about her violence, its not fair to put you under that stress. maybe if its affordable get a carer for certain times when your mum is working to look after your sister. with the boy, be careful! i can see your 19, and all ive ever seen is that young relationships dont last and we all think we can beat the "curse", but even if youve been with the same boy since you were 19, and youre 40 now youll still most likely split up or be terribly miserable. i know its hard, but take it lightly, dont be head over heels. take it as it comes and see what happens. he hasnt done anything either because he doesnt want to, or hes nervous, only you can judge that. but you dont want to be hurt, so step back sometimes and look at the bigger picture. if your friends are noticing, then maybe tell a close friend whats going on and tell them to let everyone know all is fine. you dont need everyone knowing your personal life but at the same time you dont want everyone talking coz your different. a close friend would help, trust someone. i wish you luck x


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