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Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help.

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Feeling triggered over something stupid - December 4th 2013, 10:14 PM

I haven't cut myself in over 3 years and haven't had the desire to for about 2 years. My most recent form of SH was punching things until my hands were a mess, but I haven't even done that in about 1 year. I do still get the urge to do that pretty frequently.
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Last night I was breaking up a fight between my 2 dogs and my one wrist got bit pretty good. I didn't think about it too much then, but all day today I have had a weird feeling. My wrist feels...good. I'm not upset about anything to where I would want to SH, it's just strange to have that feeling back. It scares me that I am feeling this way and I don't know how to shake it. I finally forgot how it felt to be cut, but now I remember every little detail...
I don't know what to do...
   
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Re: Feeling triggered over something stupid - December 4th 2013, 10:56 PM

I'm sorry you feel this way but congratulations on what you have achieved so far!

i would suggest looking at the alternatives to SHing or going back to whatever helped you before.

keep going, you're stronger than you may think xxx
   
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Re: Feeling triggered over something stupid - December 5th 2013, 12:51 AM

Hi there,

First of all, congratulations on going so long without self harm! That's an amazing accomplishment so you should be really proud of yourself for managing to go that long, and I do think you can keep going!

I don't think this is a stupid reason to be triggered. Sometimes the simplest of things can spark the memory of what it was like to self harm, such as the sight of blood or how an accidental injury like yours makes us feel.

What tactics have you used in the past to avoid self harm? I think that you should use some of those now. I will also give you the link to this alternatives to self harm thread, because this has even more things you can try in order to prevent yourself from harming again.

Talking to people can also help, so if you have anyone who is supportive of you such as a family member or friend, you can sort out your feelings with them, and I bet they can help you come up with a solution.

Remind yourself of the reasons you stopped self harming to begin with, too, and how good it feels that you are no longer self harming. That may be another motivator to quit. You can write motivational quotes or print out pictures online that can also serve as a confidence boost.

You can get through this and come out on top! I have all the confidence in the world for you.

-Dez


   
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