Triggering (SH): just want to cut.

♥GRANDPA'S LITTLE GIRL♥ · **just want to cut. -** July 15th 2009, 06:22 PM

fuck i hate my life. i want to cut so bad. i thoughtg i had a new boyfreind but he broke my heart. in tears feels so stupid and i'm ugly.

Fictional · **Re: just want to cut. -** July 15th 2009, 06:26 PM

Don't do it! do something off the list of alternatives, or if you absolutely must hurt yourself, do something like digging your nail into your arm or something. somethign less dangerous. If he didn't want you, then he wasn't worth it. you'll find the right guy. just don't hurt yourself over a guy, ok?

♥GRANDPA'S LITTLE GIRL♥ · **Re: just want to cut. -** July 15th 2009, 06:30 PM

it's all my falut. i'm a slut and no man wants me. just cuz i got raped.

Fictional · **Re: just want to cut. -** July 15th 2009, 06:32 PM

it's not your fault you got raped. it doesn't make you a slut, it makes you an unhappy teenage girl who's even more in need of a decent guy who loves you. and you will find him, even if it isn't any time soon. I promise.

Gidig · **Re: just want to cut. -** July 15th 2009, 07:28 PM

Don't self harm, please. You can do so many other things than self harm. You really need to speak to the police, your parents, a therapist, or someone about you getting raped. That's not okay, and no one deserves that, including you.

Have you seen the alternatives and distractions thread at the top of this forum? Go through and try tons of those before you allow yourself to self harm. Think of the reasons you shouldn't self harm. Think of the scars, the hiding, the lying, and other numerous negative things that come along with it.

Who do you have that you can talk to? You really need to find someone. A friend, someone to just keep you calm. Talk it out. You know? So, that's my two requests from you, to go try some alternatives and distractions, and go talk to someone you trust and whom can help.

Good luck, stay safe.
Maria.

Imaginary · **Re: just want to cut. -** July 16th 2009, 02:05 AM

The word "slut" doesn't really mean anything. It's not your fault you were raped, don't let anyone tell you that it is.

If you weren't good for each other, then you'll just have to find someone you're compatible with. But don't harm yourself over a boy, or for any reason. Take care...

Beautiful_mind · **Re: just want to cut. -** July 16th 2009, 04:22 AM

being raped doesnt make you a slut. you didnt asked to be raped dont listen to what others say. do you have someone close to you that you can turn to. maybe a good friend or teacher. when ever you feel like hurting yourself try listen to music or read a book, even going for a walk can help. throw way anything you can use to hurt yourself and replace the cutting with a proactive thing. have you ever done medation or relaxation? this can really help relax your mind and body you may feel you dont need to cut after. please pm me if you need anything

AshtrayHeart · <3 15/3/09 <3

Hey.
Your not a slut being raped doesn't make you a slut either. It makes the person that did that sick and they had no right to touch you like that. and your boyfriend that hurt you he obviously doesn't know what he's missing out on. Keep your head held high and don't harm yourself, you don't deserve that you deserve so much better and you deserve a guy that will love you, and take care of you even more for whats happened to you.
PM me anytime like I've said before.