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today i saw a group of girls and they were very pritty ... two of them were flirting with me the third was either taken or not interested but the first two were touching my hair and trying on my glasses .... and flirting then the dark haired girl asked why i was wearing a long sleeve shirt....i played it off and said it was my lucky shirt then i recognized the other girl ..... she knew i cut and she was looking at me like i was a freak and i realized that even if when i left the other girl didnt tell the first two that i cut cause i am psycho i would never be able to take my shirt off anyway because i cut so damn much i cant stop and it gets to the point were i wish i were dead because i know ill always be alone
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Re: alone - July 24th 2010, 04:30 AM

Honestly, just remember that #1, if you date/get close to someone, safe to say they'll like you for you; and #2, if it gets serious enough, they'll understand, so taking the shirt off won't be too much of an issue.

When I was dating this one fellow, he had a huge scar on his chest from a surgery he had when he was little (leukemia-related), and well, by the time he had taken his shirt off around me, we were comfortable enough with each other that it didn't bother me. Also, my current, long-distance boyfriend has seen my cuts. He doesn't like them, but he's not repulsed either.

So I mean, it's not always the end of the world, if you find the right someone. They may not like it, but they won't treat you like a freak.


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Re: alone - July 24th 2010, 05:19 AM

i think its safe to say i have never in my life found one person who loved me for me ......i have never met someone that knows me and loves me that much besides family .....
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Re: alone - July 24th 2010, 05:49 AM

You're NOT alone, nor are you destined to be unloved or anything like that... There IS somebody out there that will be understanding. It may not feel like that now, but not every girl will think of you as a "freak" or anything becuase of your problem. Somebody will come along that will shock you, just don't be afraid to let people in, becuase if you are, you might not learn who that woman is. PM me if you'd ever like to talk about anything.
   
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Re: alone - July 24th 2010, 06:50 AM

Dude, you're 20. It's not the end of the world.

I'm 22 1/2 and only meeting my long-distance boyfriend for the first time in a bit over a week. I don't know if he'll like me or not after meeting me, but it took many years for me to find someone who can put up with me in general. True story, my last ex broke up with me because, in summary, I'm fucked up. That was when I was 20.

Don't feel so pessimistic about it, you're still rather young.


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