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Unhappy dont know what to think - October 5th 2009, 02:56 AM

k her's what happened:
i wuz at my boyfriends house and we were foolin around...and he had restraints (thekind that you can tie under teh bed) and he got rly serious allof a sudden and he basikally raped mee..like while i was tied down
but it wasnt bad i mean like i kinda lieked it!! so i didn't realy even talk about it or anything but it wasnt awful.
so ya dont know what to think
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Re: dont know what to think - October 5th 2009, 04:12 AM

Well he should have asked you first if you wanted to do something like that...tell him next time to ask you >,> If you enjoyed it then it's okay, but honestly make sure he knows that you have as much say of what happens in the bed as he does.
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Re: dont know what to think - October 5th 2009, 05:42 AM

Hm, I'm unsure, but I'm going to go ahead and move this to rape/abuse because I think it deals more with that sort of situation.

It WAS rape if he didn't ask you, if you didn't say "Yes, I want you to have sex with me while I'm in restraints" or something along those lines. It was not okay for him to do this, whether you liked it or not. He should have asked, and I think it's something you need to speak to him about. He needs to be considerate of your feelings, what you want, and what's acceptable within your relationship.

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