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Help? - December 31st 2009, 01:12 AM

I know I have written about this before but, I need help. A little history: Sexually abused by my best friend in 8th grade. He's still in my school. I'm a junior in highschool. I still see him in the halls and usally freak out. He's not in any of my classes. But it's almost the start of second semester and I'm freaking out if he's going to be in my classes. I have told a couple of people. I see a therapist. I just want to know if he is how not to freak out. If this does happen I know I will need to get out asap. Even if that means talking to my school counselor who always is telling me I need to get over this. So any advise? Thanks.


   
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Re: Help? - December 31st 2009, 01:25 AM

i know how you feel something like what happen to you also happen to me and it was hard for me to tell but i did tell one of my teachers and then they had to tell the principal and then it was taken care of but i didnt even want to deal with him because of what he did and i didnt want to talk to him but one day he wanted to talk to me and i started freaking out because i didnt know why he wanted to talk to me

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Re: Help? - January 1st 2010, 01:35 AM

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i know how you feel something like what happen to you also happen to me and it was hard for me to tell but i did tell one of my teachers and then they had to tell the principal and then it was taken care of but i didnt even want to deal with him because of what he did and i didnt want to talk to him but one day he wanted to talk to me and i started freaking out because i didnt know why he wanted to talk to me

i am here for you so if you ever need to talk you can pm anytime
99% of my teachers do know. and so does the principal. they just think I should be over this. they don't think he could hurt anyone. he get's good grades and is a class officer. ergg.


   
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Re: Help? - January 1st 2010, 11:39 PM

Well you didn’t say what happened to you between you two but I can say that you can keep running away all the time eventfully you got stick your chin but and confront him in private and tell him the way you feel, that’ll take away a lot of the stress your feeling.
   
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Re: Help? - January 1st 2010, 11:51 PM

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Well you didnít say what happened to you between you two but I can say that you can keep running away all the time eventfully you got stick your chin but and confront him in private and tell him the way you feel, thatíll take away a lot of the stress your feeling.
He touched me. And touched me agian after getting suspended from school. After that I was brought into a room with him and told him how I felt. After that he spread evil rumors about me and threated to kill me. Confronting him in private thats like a death sentence he is bigger and stronger than me. So I know it takes time. I just needed support.


   
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