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Exclamation Here's my story.. - April 11th 2010, 10:22 PM

Hey so I'm 15 and when I was 8 thru the age 12 I was sexually melosted by my older brother.. I abused a lot of substances wanted to kill myself so I could forgt abt it and still do today I think abt killin myself I blame myself and I still have not the courage to tell my mom majorly becuz one I don't tlk to her were nevergettinv along and for two my parents just split up and she's really upset.. I haven't told anyone yet becuz I dnt think any1 will blv me I reli dnt knw what to do... I jus feel this was my fault I shoulda stoppd it. At night I cannot fall asleep I just have really bad night mares and think about everything legit I hit rock bottom my grades are bad in school I don't even care about school and I'm just done I'm giving up on eeryythin I once cared and liked . I don't knw what to do i dnt wnt to gt him in truble like I forgave him I just want to forgt which makes me abuse stuff for an example I startd abusin inhalants (household items) now I smoke ciggs and weed once inawhile it really dent make me feel good anymore so i stoppd bf nw I cutt myself ... can someone plz give me good advise
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Re: Here's my story.. - April 11th 2010, 10:41 PM

I think that even tho you already forgav your brother wat he did was still mot definetally wrong and you shud deffinetally tell someone... even if you cant tell your mom maybe a counsler at your school or other adult that you trust... weed will only hurt your grades even more and will damage your brain so im glad you stopped but cutting is not an ideal option either... im not trying to tell you wat to do, but i think that finding some alternatives would b a good idea (i.e. snapping rubber bands on your wrists till they r numb, sit in an ice cold bath, slap yourself, i know they dont have the same effect but its worth a try, idk, you can look up a bunch on the internet or ask others on here)
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Re: Here's my story.. - April 12th 2010, 03:07 AM

the thing is im still under age so they will have to tell my mom nd i wudnt be able to bear it i cnt tell her ='[ and idt i cn stop cutting .. bt thanks for the advise reli appreciated
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Re: Here's my story.. - April 14th 2010, 03:35 AM

Hey there , that sounds pretty rough . Just through that I could feel the hurt and your pain . I myself have been there and I am just starting to deal with it . I have recently told my youth pastor. He's my hero , my support , and my best friend . I know it may be hard to do but I do really suggest talking to someone you really trust . Even if it isn't an adult , it could just be a really good friend . I'm sure that many of the people you know would be more than happy to try and help you through this . And if you're not ready to tell someone yet , then you could talk to all of us on here , we're all here for you . Feel free to PM me anytime , even if it's just to chat about random things
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Re: Here's my story.. - April 18th 2010, 11:54 PM

This is going to be hard for you. Unless you can find someone who can help you without telling your mom, unlikely, your only option is to tell.
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