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Think i might be emotional abused - May 29th 2010, 03:34 AM

She tells me that she wouldnít be here if she didnít have to be. She says sheís ashamed to be my mom. She dosenít like how I act but never helps me as she loses patience very easily, She tells me that my brother hates me too. She dosenít ever help the situation she only makes it worse. She says im just a big disappointment, and that Iím the one who made me this way. She also yells at me a lot because she dosenít have anyone else to yell at. I secretly wish that I was adopted. I always threaten that Iíll leave and that I want to be adopted and then she says ďfine then, go it will help me a lot. In order to control me she says that she needs to grab my throat but it scares me. She always says sorry after she calms down but it still hurts inside.
   
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Re: Think i might be emotional abused - May 29th 2010, 04:01 AM

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She tells me that she wouldn’t be here if she didn’t have to be. She says she’s ashamed to be my mom. She dosen’t like how I act but never helps me as she loses patience very easily, She tells me that my brother hates me too. She dosen’t ever help the situation she only makes it worse. She says im just a big disappointment, and that I’m the one who made me this way. She also yells at me a lot because she dosen’t have anyone else to yell at. I secretly wish that I was adopted. I always threaten that I’ll leave and that I want to be adopted and then she says “fine then, go it will help me a lot. In order to control me she says that she needs to grab my throat but it scares me. She always says sorry after she calms down but it still hurts inside.
Yeah, I think you are emotionally abused. She shouldn't say she's ashamed of you and all that other stuff. Does she ever hit you? Where is your father,does he stick up for you or live with you or anything? Does he let your mom do that? Have you ever talked to her about what she says or how it makes you feel? PM me anytime,my mom and dad do the same thing and hit us sometimes,I know how you feel.

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Re: Think i might be emotional abused - May 29th 2010, 04:25 AM

If your mother is saying negative things (which it appears she is) that make you feel really hurt and upset then it is emotional abuse. Parents emotionally abuse their children often when they are unhappy themselves so she may not actually think these things about you, but is taking out her aggressions on you. Remember that when she does this so that you can get past all of the insults she throws your way. Maybe try talking to her and seeing if you can reach out to her and let her know that you do love her. A mother is someone who should give you their unconditional love and this can be really painful to go through, because I'm sure you want to be loved by her. The best thing I can suggest is trying to see if she can get help herself (don't be too forward about it) or talk to someone you know that knows her as well who can maybe help in this situation. Someone whom you trust. If you ever just need to let out your frustrations please don't hesitate to message me on here. I'm always all ears.

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Re: Think i might be emotional abused - May 29th 2010, 11:23 PM

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If your mother is saying negative things (which it appears she is) that make you feel really hurt and upset then it is emotional abuse. Parents emotionally abuse their children often when they are unhappy themselves so she may not actually think these things about you, but is taking out her aggressions on you. Remember that when she does this so that you can get past all of the insults she throws your way. Maybe try talking to her and seeing if you can reach out to her and let her know that you do love her. A mother is someone who should give you their unconditional love and this can be really painful to go through, because I'm sure you want to be loved by her. The best thing I can suggest is trying to see if she can get help herself (don't be too forward about it) or talk to someone you know that knows her as well who can maybe help in this situation. Someone whom you trust. If you ever just need to let out your frustrations please don't hesitate to message me on here. I'm always all ears.
I totally agree with Lexy
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