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Exclamation my 20 year old sister abuses me! - October 4th 2010, 11:49 PM

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ok so im 13 years old and seriously i need help here legal help i want her out of the house ive been thinking of killing my self thts what it comes down too and nobody is helping me plz tell me what to do.

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Re: my 20 year old sister abuses me! - October 7th 2010, 08:50 AM

It might be your best bet to call the police, if she is really abusive and constantly attacks you and when you go to your parents and your parents wont intervene, thats called neglect. However it is hard to distinguish this between the common rivalries of siblings.

The fact that you share a room with your brother is probably a cause of frustration but not much more and while it might be annoying to you its not illegal and probably for a reason. Consider that your parents probably dont have enough money to get a house with an extra bedroom.

Most siblings have sqaubbles and most teenagers have angst in which they feel unjustly treated and selfrightous.

So if you could please give more information on the extent of your problem.

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Re: my 20 year old sister abuses me! - October 7th 2010, 09:42 AM

Okay. I believe that your best bet would be to go to the police about this. If it's at the point where you are considering killing yourself, you need to tell the police that. You need to tell them everything.

If that doesn't get you anywhere, your other option is an AVO. That is a way to get this to stop. Also, sit down with your parents and talk about what you are feeling. Make sure they understand.

I hope this has helped. If you need to talk PM me.
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Re: my 20 year old sister abuses me! - October 7th 2010, 08:48 PM

Man. Thats harsh.
A 20 year old sister has to protect her 13 year old brother. She really must be the what you told her. Call the cops. She got go.
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Re: my 20 year old sister abuses me! - October 8th 2010, 02:46 AM

I highly support the idea of calling the police in your situation.
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Re: my 20 year old sister abuses me! - October 8th 2010, 02:51 AM

I also support calling the cops. It is highly highly beneficial to your safety and well being.

There are a couple of crimes going on here:
-Adult assaults a minor
-Parents do NOTHING= Neglect= Child abuse.

Please do the right thing for yourself and younger brother.

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