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what .. - November 12th 2010, 11:50 PM

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Yeah. I'm deeply disturbed right now, shaky and feel like I'm on the verge of tears .. I don't even know what to say. Really. Just .. ugh.

I was sitting on the computer, doing stuff on it and when i felt the back of my chair shaking. I turned around to see why and i saw my brother's computer had pictures of girls up on it. 2+2 together .. my brother was masturbating 3 feet away from me, at 7PM, and i don't know what to do.

I got up almost immediately, walked out of the room, then got the guts to scream at him to 'go away'. My mom thought I was talking about her and got pretty mad, but my brother did end up leaving the room pretty fast.

He has aspergers but I'm not sure if I care or feel like this excuses it right now. I've had a bad history and I feel sick to my stomach right now. It just .. it can't be normal to do that 3 feet away from your sister ...

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Re: what .. - November 13th 2010, 10:49 AM

That is certainly disturbing, and I can understand your reaction, as it was natural and probably justified.
But you must understand that Aspergers suffers often exhibit acts of inappropriate masturbation. Your reaction will hopefully give him some contemplation of how his actions are innapropriate.
Don't feel guilty, it is a perfectly normal response and he'll hopefully understand what was wrong concerning what he did rather than become quite upset with you.

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Re: what .. - November 13th 2010, 10:18 PM

The thing is I really think this snapped any want i had to try to build a better relationship with him. Right now, I just want out of this house and as far as away from ANYONE who would do that. For God's sake ..

I can't stand looking at him, and I haven't said anything to him since. I was hard enough when it was him invading my personal space, but now this? I would have thought even he would know this crosses the line...
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Re: what .. - November 15th 2010, 01:46 AM

Hey there... one of the kids I babysit has aspergers and did this same thing last week around me. I can relate to you in that I feel very awkward...I didnt tell his dad, and I dont really know if I should have. Im sorry that your brother did this. If there is any way I can help, let me know. I almost thought about not babysitting him but I need the money.
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Re: what .. - November 16th 2010, 11:34 AM

maybe explain to your mum what he was doing and explain that you understand he has asperges and that your worried that he was doing this about 3 feet away from you, and maybe ask if your mum can talk to him and explain why it is not a normal thing to do.

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Re: what .. - November 17th 2010, 11:55 AM

I understand your confusion. But he DOES have aspergers which can cause inapproprait masturbation

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