My mum abuses me

[Sad]

Hi there, I am a 17 year old girl, and I can remember mum abusing me since I was little, it started out with spanking, I never complained or said anything because I was so afraid but now, she hits me in the face hard swears at me pushes and kicks me, I feel like I want to die, I feel useless.... What can I do? I love her so much, I just want this to end, I am thinking of suicidal thought but I know that is not the way, please help me!!!!!

[Bex plague]

I feel the same way I love my parents so much and I can't turn them in, I also don't know what to do. Have you tried talking to her? Asking why she does this? It may help if you hear her side of the story.

[Sad]

Originally Posted by Bex plague

I feel the same way I love my parents so much and I can't turn them in, I also don't know what to do. Have you tried talking to her? Asking why she does this? It may help if you hear her side of the story.

I have but she always screams at me saying that she doesn't want me to say anything to her, she won't be bothered to sit down talk to me, she manipulates me and wants everything to go her way, today I told her I have a pain in my heart after hitting me and she didn't give a damn...

[Bex plague]

Is there anywhere you can stay? A family members, a friends...anyone. It may help if you have some time apart from eachother.

[Sad]

Originally Posted by Bex plague

Is there anywhere you can stay? A family members, a friends...anyone. It may help if you have some time apart from eachother.

I have a lovely boyfriend, the best man in the world, but today I told her I'm leaving, she hit me so hard, scratched me so deep, I am a prisoner in my own house..

[Bex plague]

Get out of there, its best to just leave, even if you have to sneak out, go to your boyfriend be safe. You can call your mum in a couple of days and talk, if she hangs up on you, she hangs up on you. Go and live your life don't be controlled when you can easily get away.

[Sad]

Originally Posted by Bex plague

Get out of there, its best to just leave, even if you have to sneak out, go to your boyfriend be safe. You can call your mum in a couple of days and talk, if she hangs up on you, she hangs up on you. Go and live your life don't be controlled when you can easily get away.

I can't sneak out, I know that she will come get me and if she gets me she's going to kill me, I have marks all over my hands and neck with what she's done to me

[**Ordinary Day**]

Hey Dear,

Alrighty. The best thing you can do for yourself right now is to call someone or get a friend to call someone. You don't feel safe in your own home and that's a big problem. I don't suggest moving in with your boyfriend because that can lead to some bigger problems. Don't let her do these things to you. This is your life and you need to take control of it. I promise things will get better after you're removed from that situation. They might not at first, but they will. Good luck. Let me know if you need anything.
Jenn

[Sad]

Originally Posted by **Ordinary Day**

Hey Dear,

Alrighty. The best thing you can do for yourself right now is to call someone or get a friend to call someone. You don't feel safe in your own home and that's a big problem. I don't suggest moving in with your boyfriend because that can lead to some bigger problems. Don't let her do these things to you. This is your life and you need to take control of it. I promise things will get better after you're removed from that situation. They might not at first, but they will. Good luck. Let me know if you need anything.
Jenn

Dear jenn thank u so much, I really appreciate you taking time to respond to me, God bless you!!

[**Ordinary Day**]

Originally Posted by Sad

Dear jenn thank u so much, I really appreciate you taking time to respond to me, God bless you!!

Anytime! And you too

[Unicorn ♥✿]

I wouldn't call spanking abuse, unless it is done exessivly or for no reason.

The rest is.

Perhaps she has some underlying issue? Do you have a mobile phone or a phone at a friend's home you could call her from. This is safer for you than face to face.
Call her and ask, tell her what she does upsets and scares you. The worst she can do over the phone is hang up.

Maybe hide out at yopur boyfriend's house until she calms down after the call? You might even find out why she is this way over the phone too.

[Kitty.]

Hey,

At this point, the best thing to do is call the police on her. There is evidence of abuse so the police will know what is going on. The police will make sure that you stay safe. If you don't want to call the police, you can call Child Services. Either one of those people should be able to take you to safety.

Take care,
Kitty.