TeenHelp



You are not registered or have not logged in

Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!)

As a guest on TeenHelp you are only able to use some of our site's features. By registering an account you will be able to enjoy unlimited access to our site, and will be able to:

Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now!

We hope you consider joining us and hope to see you around!


TeenHelp Features
HelpLINK
Articles Videos

Search TeenHelpAdvanced


Rape and Abuse If you or someone you know is being abused in any way and you need some support or advice, don't be afraid to reach out to us here.

Closed Thread
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
  (#1 (permalink)) Old
Crimson Scars Offline
Banned
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
Crimson Scars's Avatar
 
Age: 13

Posts: 7
Join Date: June 3rd 2011

Is this sexual abuse? - June 3rd 2011, 01:58 PM

My cousin Timmy whose 21 keeps coming and laying in my bed every night, I stay with his family because my parents died when I was little. He makes me touch his privates and he touches me. It sometimes hurts and I don't know what to do about it. When uncle Robert asks why he's in my room he just says I have nightmares what is true, but the nightmares are about Timmy. I don't know what to do? Is this even abuse...
   
  (#2 (permalink)) Old
Youth Pastor Offline
Yes, I am a Youth Pastor! :)
Junior TeenHelper
****
 
Youth Pastor's Avatar
 
Name: Erik
Age: 29
Gender: Male
Location: USA

Posts: 229
Join Date: March 2nd 2009

Re: Is this sexual abuse? - June 3rd 2011, 02:22 PM

Yes, this is abuse. I would tell his parents. If they don't do anything then go to the cops.


To the world you might be one person but to one person you might be the world

Failure isn't when you get knocked down, it's when you don't get back up
   
  (#3 (permalink)) Old
Mellifluous Offline
Moo with me.
Junior TeenHelper
****
 
Mellifluous's Avatar
 
Name: Anna, call me Rue
Age: 14
Gender: Female
Location: Minnesota, eh

Posts: 206
Join Date: October 1st 2010

Re: Is this sexual abuse? - June 3rd 2011, 07:22 PM

Hun, that's molestation. Please tell someone.


You can find me here: http://mcrdoesmylaundry.tumblr.com/
Follow me, I'm pretty awesome


Gimme sympathy,
after all of this is gone.
Who would you rather be?
Beatles or the Rolling Stones?
Oh,seriously,
You're gonna make mistakes.
You're young.
Come on, baby.
Play me somethin'
like 'Here Comes the Sun'



   
  (#4 (permalink)) Old
guv11 Offline
Member
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
guv11's Avatar
 
Age: 20

Posts: 31
Join Date: January 8th 2009

Re: Is this sexual abuse? - June 3rd 2011, 09:18 PM

this is abuse, but the most important thing to remember is that this isnt your fault, its really really scary to tell someone about something like this, but it's the best thing to do, it doesnt have to be his parents or your parents, someone like a teacher, or just any adultyou trust. even though talking about it will be really hard, its the best way out, and in the long run, actually the easiest aswell...
youll be given someone who you can talk to and theyll help you with everything, even when its over theyll still talk to you and se how your getting on, and make you feel better if needed so theyre no one to be afraid of.and im sure everyone else will be really supportive, they know he shouldnt be doing this aswell.

and of course you can PM anyone on the site whenever you need help
   
  (#5 (permalink)) Old
-maddie- Offline
Member
Average Joe
***
 
-maddie-'s Avatar
 
Name: Maddie
Age: 14
Gender: girl

Posts: 124
Join Date: November 26th 2010

Re: Is this sexual abuse? - June 3rd 2011, 09:26 PM

yes its not right. you should tell someone pls
   
  (#6 (permalink)) Old
Member
Junior TeenHelper
****
 
snakewhisperer28's Avatar
 
Name: Jayme
Age: 18
Gender: Female
Location: So Cal

Posts: 259
Join Date: June 14th 2009

Re: Is this sexual abuse? - June 3rd 2011, 11:02 PM

yes it is definetly sexual abuse! you really need to tell his parents what he is doing to you, if they wont help then tell the police. Nobody has the right to do this to you. Good luck


"One day at a time, this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering." -Ida Scott Taylor
   
  (#7 (permalink)) Old
Sleeping Beauty Offline
Member
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
Sleeping Beauty's Avatar
 
Name: Reba
Gender: Female
Location: USA

Posts: 32
Join Date: March 21st 2011

Re: Is this sexual abuse? - June 3rd 2011, 11:07 PM

Im so sorry Crimson Scars but this is sexual abuse and none of this is your fault ! please, i hope you tell his parents- your not in the wrong he is. If they dont listen or dont help at all go to someone like a school councelor if your too afraid to go to the police at first. but if not go right to the police. Goodluck Crimson! remember, your a beautiful person
PM me anytime<3
   
  (#8 (permalink)) Old
Member
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
Oneoftheducklings's Avatar
 
Name: Jess
Age: 19
Gender: Female
Location: Suffolk, England

Posts: 10
Join Date: June 3rd 2011

Re: Is this sexual abuse? - June 3rd 2011, 11:28 PM

This is sexual abuse. Make sure you tell an adult or even the police, and remember that it isn't your fault. This is wrong.


Sherlock Holmes 2: A Game Of Shadows.


Robert Downey Jr. - Thank you for everything.
  Send a message via MSN to Oneoftheducklings  
Closed Thread

Bookmarks

Tags
abuse, sexual

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off





All material copyright ©1998-2012, TeenHelp Inc. All rights reserved.
TeenHelp Inc. is a registered 501(c)(3) not-for-profit organisation in the United States of America.
Terms | Legal | Privacy | Conduct

Powered by vBulletin®.
Copyright ©2000-2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search engine optimization by vBSEO.
Theme developed in association with vBStyles.