Is this raped or not??

[ThatGirl1]

I dont know were i was raped or not...
Last night, i was at my friends house and he was having a few drinks. I never because im pregnant, if you read my last post you would know why. Anyways, just before i lefted he asked for kiss so i give him one because he has being my friend for years. Then, he pushed me down on his bed and he pinned my arms together and he sat and my legs so i couldnt move. He started to undo my jeans and he started putting his fingers inside me. I started paincing and i was crying so he stopped. After all of that, he started to freak out and then he walked me home. While we were walking home he told me not to tell anybody about it or he was going to kill me so i never told my brother when he asked why i had being crying and that.
Im ok now but i just wanted to know if i was raped or not...

[Reverie.]

Hey there,

I'm sorry to hear you've had to go through this. It is certainly some kind of sexual assult, although I'm not completly sure on what constitutes as actual rape. In any case, it's worth telling someone about it. He had no right to do what he did, and deffinetly no right to threaten you after it. I think you should tell a parent and the police about this, it's not right that he did it to you and you shouldn't have to struggle along after it just because he thinks it is okay to threaten you about telling someone.

I hope you're okay. You can PM me anytime, and I will be happy to do what I can to help you out. I wish you the best of luck in sorting this out.

Take care of yourself,
Hollie.

[Agent P]

I'm sorry you had to go through this, but that doesn't mean you're alone in it. It's a step to come here and talk about it. He really does not sound like that good of a friend if he feels he can use you, drunk or not. You really should tell someone. A parent, the police, or a school counsellor (if your school is still in session). I highly suggest you stay clear of him or at the very least never be alone with him. It is sexual assault what he did. As far as I can tell by what you wrote, you did not consent to it. Even if you didn't say no, that doesn't make it an open invitation for him just because you kissed him.

This is also not your fault by any means. Keep safe and take care. Private Message me if you need to talk to someone or vent.

Immy.

[Dr.heather]

I wouldnt call it rape since he stoped and you didnt have intercourse.. but you were abused sexualy... and even worse since your pregnat using that kind of force on you could have been dangerous for the baby..

This is very wrong and you need to tell someone. He not going to do nothing its a empty threat cause he is scared. Tell someone and get help!!