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Sexually assaulted -
June 5th 2011, 12:35 AM
I was sexually assaulted a while ago and I think that everything that happened is all my fault. He keeps telling me that everything is all my fault and that if I tell someone what he did to me then he will hurt me. I am really scared and I don't know what to do. What this person did to me was very bad. He did some horrible things and he made me do things that I didn't want to do. I tryed stopping him but it didn't work he kept on doing it so I think that it's all my FAULT!!
I keep having flashbacks about everything that has happend. I have them alot. I don't get much sleep at night because when I tryed going to sleep all I see is him assaulting me. He also told me that if I told someone they wouldn't believe me or they wouldn't care they would just all ignore me. I am really really SCARED and EVERYTHING IS ALL MY FAULT!! “Words can break someone into a million pieces, but they can also put them back together. I hope you use yours for good, because the only words you'll regret more than the ones left unsaid are the ones you use to intentionally hurt someone.”
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Re: Sexually assaulted -
June 5th 2011, 12:53 AM
Hey SingingStar13
I'm so sorry that happened to you hun, and I can tell you two things: I believe you, and it is most certainly NOT your fault. And it never will be. I know it seems scary, but you should try to tell someone there. A parent/guardian, someone at school (I don't know your age, so that can mean whichever kind, teacher, guidance counsellor, etc). What he did was not okay, and people will help you through this. |
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Re: Sexually assaulted -
June 5th 2011, 10:54 AM
Rebecca,
I am sorry that you are having such a hard time. I'm going to start with this. NONE OF THIS IS YOUR FAULT...remember that. You didn't ask for this or want this to happen. So don't feel as if its your fault. He is threatening you so that he can get away with this and hurt you again or hurt someone else. I know it seems scary but the best thing to do is phone the police or authorities on him. They will protect you so that he cannot hurt you or anyone else and then he will get punished like he deserves. They would believe you and they would have to investigate a claim like this anyway. This is not your fault and i am here if you ever need to talk or anything Take care sweetheart 
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June 8th 2011, 01:49 AM
this is NOT YOUR FAULT know that much, he is just trying to bring you down with him, cause someone who dose that people is sick in the head and are miserable themselves and they want there victims to be miserable with them... Believe nothing this guy told you. I know you are scared but you have to tell someone and when you do you have to have proof, cause you can do tell and nothing can happen and the law has to tell him what he is accused of.. I DO BELIEVE you, but if we could have your age it might make this easier on us, because if you are under 17 and he is older than 17 or even if there is two year difference, he can go to jail just on your word no proof at all... so PM me if you need further help
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Re: Sexually assaulted -
June 8th 2011, 02:20 AM
im sorry rebecca. it happened to me to. it was NOT your fault. they tell us that. but it is not your fault. you shold tell someone please
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Re: Sexually assaulted -
June 8th 2011, 03:20 AM
Its horrible what happened to you, but this is not your fault under any circumstance. The only one who can take the blame is that piece of shit, and if you tell somebody, they'll believe you and help you. I promise you that if you tell somebody, he will be arrested and never hurt you again.
Whatever you do, you HAVE to tell somebody! You cant let him get away with this! |
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