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Unhappy Why is he lying... - December 17th 2011, 01:12 AM

Okay so I invited this guy over one day and we were just chilling when he started kissing me and I was kinda kissing back, but I felt super uncomfortable.
I remember closing my eyes and when I open them I wasnt clothed, and I asked him how did I get this way so quickly.

When I contacted the guy yesterday he is saying that I said something totally different. And he told me his side of the story, which was totally bogus.

I also remember him asking me to have oral sex with him like 20 times(I'm not exaggerating)and I wouldnt budge. But the guy once again said something totally different.

Anyway, after I wouldnt give him oral sex I was at the edge of the bed. I felt weird like dizzy and he asked me to turn around and his voice sounded faded. When I turned around he started to have sex with me and I cried through the whole thing. He even asked if I wanted to stop and I said yes, but he kept going.

However, when I told the guy I didnt want the sex and I was crying he just brushed it off and changed his story about what happen again. And when I kept telling him that definately didnt happen he snapped and was like,"If you dont remember why are we talking about this?" And now he is asking me to meet up with him.

I just don't understand why he is lying to me....

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Re: Why is he lying... - December 17th 2011, 01:55 AM

First, I am very sorry that happened to you. No one should have to go through what you went through and it must be really confusing for you. It's okay to feel that way. If you need/want to talk about anything, you can PM me anytime. I promise I'll try to understand and help. As for why he is lying, he probably feels ashamed or guilty for whatever happened that night. Hope this helps.
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Re: Why is he lying... - December 17th 2011, 04:13 PM

I am very sorry that this has happened to you No one should have to go through this. He is most likely lying because he feels guilty or because he is afraid he will get into trouble but he deserves to for what he did. I wouldn't meet up with him.
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Re: Why is he lying... - December 18th 2011, 07:36 PM

Firstly, don't meet up with him, based on what happened his intentions might be to cause further harm to you. I highly recommend reporting what he did to the police.
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Re: Why is he lying... - December 18th 2011, 08:28 PM

Whatever you do, make sure you do not see him again. I am so sorry this happened to you, nobody should have to endure this. You should go to the police immediately you never know if he could do this again to someone else.

PM me if you ever need to talk, I understand what you're going through.

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