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Question I don't know how to explain this. - April 19th 2012, 02:32 AM

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So, today on my bus the kid next to me,Justin did things to me. He made me put my hand on his area. On top of that he started moving it around. I'm just crush completely by this and have no idea what to do. Any advice?

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Re: I don't know how to explain this. - April 19th 2012, 02:47 AM

Hey there,

I'm sorry for what he's done to you. You don't deserve that. Honestly, I think you should report this to either the bus company, or if it's ran by your school, you should tell your school about this. What he's done isn't right and he needs to be punished. I can see you're hurt and confused by this incident so talking about it will definitely help. Writing any negative feelings down and distracting yourself from the incident also helps. I'd also suggest that you keep your distance from him. If possible, sit elsewhere on the bus, avoid him at school/ in the neighborhood, and don't text/call him (if you do). If you feel like you want to get out how you feel about him, and what he's done, then write it all out and put it in an envelope; you don't have to give it to him. But at least that way, you have it all out. I hope that you get this sorted and you feel better soon.

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Re: I don't know how to explain this. - April 20th 2012, 01:29 AM

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Dear People of TH,
So, today on my bus the kid next to me,Justin did things to me. He made me put my hand on his area. On top of that he started moving it around. I'm just crush completely by this and have no idea what to do. Any advice?

Thanks in advance,
Ebunny96
I agree with the other post - something must be done about this.
It's 100% not okay, and unacceptable.

As a whole, when things like this happen, the "victim" of the situation is usually afraid to do anything about it.
Don't let yourself fall into that trap - tell somebody.
Make sure to specify that you are afraid of what will happen if he finds out that you told. This cannot be allowed to continue.
For your sake, and the sake of others, it must be done.

Also, for you, I suggest you find someone whom you are comfortable speaking with on a constant basis. Someone who you trust no matter what.
It's so important to have in life...especially when things like this are going on.
Best of luck...if you ever need to talk, you know we are available.
   
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