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I'm a liar - April 14th 2016, 06:05 AM

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I'm not sure if any of you remember my previous posts but I've struggled on and off with an eating disorder. While I was never formally diagnosed by my psychiatrist my therapists and nutritionist all said my behavior is characteristic of disordered eating. I'll go through periods of restricting, then eating a healthy amount of calories and purging. I'll also exercise excessively. I was doing this last year when I made all my posts in this forum. The only reason it stopped was because my family threatened to send me to a psych hospital if I didn't quit, so I bargained and said I'd go to a special DBT group for people with eating disorders. It helped- for a while.

In November I became very depressed. For three months I struggled with self-harm and suicidal thoughts. I came through the other side with a hospitalization, some medication changes, and the support of my loved ones, but in the process I gained back some of the weight I had lost. For about two months I was in limbo where I hated myself for how I looked but wasn't doing anything to change it. Then a few weeks ago I decided to start doing something about it.

I purged a few times over the last few months but not excessively. However, in the last couple of weeks I've started restricting again. I cut out certain foods completely and greatly reduced my caloric intake. In addition I've started exercising more. I've been going to the gym for two hours a day every day, not including walking from my house to the gym, which is a considerable distance away. I don't have a scale right now but I can see my efforts have made a small difference already.

The reason I say I'm a liar is because I'm doing to great lengths to hide what I'm doing. I wrote in a blog on another website about my struggle with food and weight and how this time I'm choosing to love my body and make changes in a healthy way. I've even told my girlfriend how happy I am to be doing this in a positive way. It's all bull. I'm not eating nearly enough calories to make up for how many I'm burning at the gym. I just don't want everyone to freak out like they did last year so I figure if I say some crap about how I'm learning to love my body they'll all relax.

There are things about my appearance I like, but the vast majority of it I dislike. I want to be skinnier- much skinnier. I want to be so skinny that I have room to wiggle should I gain weight again without gaining so much that I hate myself for it. I don't care how I get there, either. I already know I don't know how to lose weight without getting crazy about it; it's a fact I've accepted.

I don't know what to do. I don't know what I'm asking for, exactly. I feel bad for lying to everybody, especially my girlfriend. I just don't want them to stop me like they did last year. Anyway, that's all. Any advice or support is welcome.

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