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I'm in a bit of a Pickle - September 28th 2017, 01:12 PM

So I feel really...idk...pressured.
Yesterday I was getting really fed up of A level french and decided that I wanted to do AS Film studies instead. But today 2nd period, I had french and I felt like it would be a shame to waste what I have learnt. It would be nice to have a French A level, I think and I have already learnt a lot of words.
But when I think of it I don't want to continue it after school and I'm not going to move to france...so...
I think with film studies it could actually help my future maybe?
I feel stressed because I am already too late to change and I need to make up my mind quickly. I don't know what to do.

So for some reason I went to the common room and for the first time in a week I bought lunch. Well, a roll and a cookie. And now I'm thinking "what the fuck did I do that for?" And I haven't eaten them yet, but perhaps this stress caused me to buy the food to comfort me but I can't eat it because I will feel guilty.

I'm so confused, what do I do?
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Re: I'm in a bit of a Pickle - October 1st 2017, 12:36 AM

Well there is one thing about school I can tell you for sure. Don't let it pressure you. If it's to late to change then don't. Just because you don't plan to do anything with french in the futur doesn't mean you can't take it. Later you can always turn somewhere else. I did my A-levels with math and since and now I'm studying languages. Just because you did your A-levels in a certain subject doesn't mean you have to make that your life.
So if you take french because it't to late to change and you already studied, thats perfectly fine. You can always change later. This does not make your future. Nothing is set in stone and nothing is wasted.
If it helps, maybe seit down. Think about if it is even possible to change now. If not, try to forget it. It will have no great impact on your futur.
If you can still change, maybe you can make a pro and con list. Maybe even ask a teacher you trust for their oppinion or to give their input on your list. Many teachers will be glad to help their students in those decisions.

Maybe it was the stress that urged you to by these foods. I don't know.
Though maybe it's good to remember that your brain needs sugar to function, so it might have just been your body trying to help you solve the problem.

I hope things get better for you soon and you can find a solution for this.


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Re: I'm in a bit of a Pickle - October 2nd 2017, 08:35 AM

thank you very much Oliver for the advice, it helped a lot. I have decided that I'm not going to change, and you're right, nothing is set in stone.


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