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fear of being alone - November 13th 2011, 05:16 PM

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hey this is will was here. I'm having a hard time. see for a long time I've been feeling like I'm fat. Logically I know I'm not but I just sometimes feel like i haven't got control of my figure and that I"m practically folding over my chair. It makes me uncomfortable and I worry that no guy in the world will ever date me cause I look like a monster. So what do I do when i feel like this?. well I eat more to feel better. this morning I had 12 chocolates and a big piece of apple pie and a bowl of pig fat. (aka bacon) I don't want to be alone all my life. what should I do?


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Re: fear of being alone - November 13th 2011, 05:25 PM

hi will. I would say when ur feeling uncomfortable ect. to just surround urself around positive ppl that care about u. and if u have a great personality then u wont be alone all ur life. many ppl go for personality over looks. the most important thing is to become comfortable with urself. ppl are so many different sizes and shapes and no two ppl are exactly alike so just imbrase what u got and just enjoy life
   
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Re: fear of being alone - November 15th 2011, 11:45 PM

Hey Will!

You are a growing teenage boy, so its normal to eat more food than you normally would. That's nothing to be ashamed of I mean, I'm a 16 year old girl and I'm very overweight, but I don't eat a lot. Its just in my genes. That's not something you can control. Now I'm pretty sure that your not overweight and that this is all in your head, but I want you to know that your not the only person out there that feels this way about themselves. Its difficult to go through every day life constantly trying to push these thoughts out of your head, only to end up thinking about it more and more. <3 But! Don't forget that eventually these thoughts are going to pass and you'll feel great about yourself. Don't feel so down and think that just because your having these thoughts that this means that you wont find a boy who will love you for you. Stay strong
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