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So depressed - May 23rd 2013, 01:45 PM

I'm fighting a cancer. So difficult for me. The treatment is so painful, I can't do anything after the procedure and feel unable to move for a bit. But the most awful thing that this is incurably, I'm getting worse everyday... They dont suppose I'll live long, I probably have few years... I'm just 17, I don't want to die, I'm crying everyday. I really need support right now, I don't know what to do.
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Re: So depressed - May 23rd 2013, 04:59 PM

i'm so sorry to hear what you're going through. life throws things at us, that we don't always deserve. some seem to have it better than others, while others seem to have it worse.there is always bad within the good, and good within the bad. within the toughest of times, especially with something you can't control.. the only thing you can control is how you look at things. surround yourself with the little things that do make you happy.. or surround yourself with the thoughts that make you happy. there's still good out there, and there's still hope. i have a quote that i wrote on my wall that says "hope for the best, but prepare for the worst". and thats really all you can do, enjoy what you do have, while you still have it. you have your support all around you; friends, family, and anyone you reach out to or anyone who reaches out to you. we're here. and we wish you the best, and the best of strength.
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Re: So depressed - May 23rd 2013, 06:26 PM

That really sucks.. I can't imagine going through that, I'm so sorry that you have to. /: I know the treatments are rough.. (a few months volunteering in the childrens hospital near me proved to be an eye opener..) That's terrible.

Try to find things that are easy for you to do, easy on your body, things you enjoy.. Drawing? Writing? Playing an instrument maybe? Pick up a new hobby.. I spent a lot of time in the hospital in 2011, and I got a lot more into writing than i had been previously, simply because it was something easy for me to do when I was recovering from a surgery I had.

Maybe start a blog, post inspirational quotes and pictures, and just vent your feelings on there.. you can go there whenever you're feeling down to try and pick yourself back up again, as well as venting all the negative feelings out.

Do you have an ipod or mp3? if not go to a website like playlist or something, and make a playlist of music that makes you happy or feel good about yourself.. something uplifting.

I really wish there was more I could say/do to help, but if you ever want to talk about anything, make a new friend, or just really need to vent.. I'm all ears. Feel free to message me whenever. <3

Just remember it's 100% okay to feel however you feel, and you have every right to be upset and scared and in pain. .. Don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise. You're entitled to your feelings.. Stay strong. You've got this. <3

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Re: So depressed - June 2nd 2013, 05:30 PM

Here's a hug! <('.')> I pray your health improves quickly and the cancer goes away for good!
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Re: So depressed - June 5th 2013, 06:18 PM

Hey there,

I am truly heartbroken upon hearing this. I understand that it must be extremely difficult and painful, but don't worry. We are all here to support you through this. You are not alone. You are an extremely strong person, and we are here to be your cheerleaders throughout this hard time. If there is anything we can do, let us know and we will help.

Feel free to message me whenever you want and I will talk to you and support you. Don't forget that you are stronger than you think.

Are you having a tough day or night? Then do this, place your hand over your heart. Feel that? That's called purpose. You're alive for a reason. Don't give up.
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