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please help =/ - October 9th 2009, 02:36 AM

I've been smoking weed for a couple years now because its been getting harder and harder to deal with being molested when i was younger. I love weed. It helps me deal with everything and when i'm high is the only time i don't think about what happened to me. I would keep doing it but i'm losing some of my best friends because of it so i can't do it anymore. I don't know what else to do. If i give up the weed i'll just go back to being suicidal and i dont want to go back to that. I don't know what else can help me forget. Please help
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Re: please help =/ - October 11th 2009, 05:15 AM

It seems like you want to stop, which is good
I would suggest talking to someone about what happened. And if you can't find a counselor, maybe try talking to a close friend or family member. Also, it might be good if you got into a sport or some other activity Just try out different things and see what helps keeps you focused on anything but the past. I would really talk to someone about it though. OR maybe start keeping a journal or diary.

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Re: please help =/ - October 11th 2009, 07:09 PM

you won't be able to stop unless yooou want too, do it for yourelf, not because of your friends. my best friend said she wouldn't hang out with me anymore if i continued to smoke, i told her then she really isnt a friend, a friend is there for you no matter what, they love you for your flaws as well and she has stuck by my side...

now i'm not saying not to quit! but don't do it because of your friends, do it for yourself!

i'm really sorry to hear what happened to you, its something your sadly never going to forget. if your using weed as a way to forget then you need to go talk to someone about what happened to you. it won't be easy, it's going to be hard and its going to hurt like hell, but in the end you'll feel so much better, you have to come to terms with what happened to you.

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Re: please help =/ - October 13th 2009, 12:26 AM

thank youu
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Re: please help =/ - October 14th 2009, 08:26 AM

smoking weed has allways just made me way more depressed once it wore off. try confronting yourselfg with it. cry your ass off. its perfectly normal. i had to go through the same thing after being gang raped at 14. just trust yourself and love yourself. it wasnt your fault and your a beautiful, broken girl. accept it for how it is and learn that it's okay to love yourself. boost your self confidence, thats the biggest key. once you learn that it realy is as simple as trusting yourself, you can conquer anything life hands you.
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