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Unhappy I Hate my mother, and i really miss my dad - August 13th 2012, 09:07 AM

Ok, so im 14 years old, and my parents have been divorced since i was 7. My mom has always been a drunk, she KICKED my dad out. Withount a penny in his pocket. So now he's Living 700 miles from me, with my brother who is currently deployed overseas, and his wife. I had the chance when i was visiting to stay up there, but I didnt take it. I feel as though, not only did my actions get me here, i may have to stay here. My dad raised me, he loves me WAAAYYY more than my mother ever could. She just loves me for the 600$ she gets for me every month. Custody battles are so long and drawn out, and Their way too far away to come here for court hearings all the time. I love my dad very much, and i pray to god this all works out. Please give me any advice you can
   
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Re: I Hate my mother, and i really miss my dad - August 13th 2012, 02:48 PM

Hey there,

I feel for you and I know how awful it is to have to go through parental separation and the associated drama. If your mom is an alcoholic, I'm certain that one day her drinking is going to catch up with her and the state will most likely find her unfit for guardianship (hopefully!)

One question, do you attend these court hearings and do they allow you a chance to talk to anyone, or is it solely between your parents? If you are ever visited by the state (someone like a social worker or whatever) I would tell them pretty much what you posted here: you want to live with your father and your mother has drinking problems and only wants the child support. I can't say what kind of good it would do if any, but it's worth a shot.


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