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Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 12:40 PM

Hey guys...im new here...i really need some help. Im turning 17 in 75 days and i really need to move out of my moms house. Ive got mixed answers and i dont know what to do. My mom and i fight constantly. about anything and everything. i cant take it anymore. she took everything from me except clothes, im not allowed to go to school anymore or do any kind of schooling, im miserable, im locked in my room all day, the only reason im able to do this is because my brother is a sweetheart. I dont have a phone to contact the police to ask about this. My friend left at 17 and his mom called the cops. when they found him, the cop didnt take him home or report him as a runaway because he was safe. i have 4 families willing to let me live with them. so i could go back to the same school and get a job...i would be so much happier. please tell me what i can do!
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 12:44 PM

Would you mother call the police? When i ran away they found me and they took me back to my mom.
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 12:52 PM

Im not sure...shes really bipolar about the situation
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 01:17 PM

Honestly I would try to move away with a friend. If I was in that kind of problem I would move out. I'm 16 and this weekend i'm moving out. I would if she won't let you go to school move out and get help.
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 01:24 PM

ive tried twice before and i had to go to court...i was 15 and 16...i dont know if that will effect my situation at all...i dont want to move out a third time ad get in serious trouble without knowing the law or whatever...ya know?...ive heard that your not considered a minor or an adult at 17 so theres nothing my mom can do...and ive also heard that im a minor until im 18 and she can get me in a lot of trouble...and if she can, she will
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 01:37 PM

what i would do is talk to somebody you trust. Or you can look stuff up on the internet and see what you see. I would try talking to somebody first. That what i'm doing and its kinda helping. I've talked to my resource officer and he says its probably a good idea for me to move out. Is there anybody in your family you trust?
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 01:42 PM

heck to the no...they are ALL on my moms side because she is really good at convincing people i am this terrible out of control teenager...and shes #1 mom....ive tried looking on the internet...some things say i can...and then others say i cant...i emailed the chief police officer where i live but he hasnt answered...and i emailed him like a month ago..i dont know what to do anymore

and a lot of people have called the cops ad CPS but se lies...and of coirse theyre going to believe the adult over a kid

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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 01:52 PM

Well if you want me to I can talk to my resource officer and see what he says? hes helped me and hes helping me move out. I'm pretty sure he can contact a officer up where you live and have them help you. I'll help as much as i can. I'm sorry. My parents(actually cousins) are like your mom. I'm only allowed on my couch and that is it. Nothing else. I don't choose what cothes I wear or anything.
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 01:56 PM

wow...im sorry...you shouldnt have to go through that...i know it sucks...but you can if you would like...you dont have to though...
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 02:03 PM

Well if you want me to I will. He is a lot of help. He is really cool. I know I do but I try to not let it get me down. I'm trying to move out but yet i'm scared because my parents don't like my boyfriend and said if i continue to see him they will arrest him. What do you think I should do?
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 02:07 PM

how old is your boyfriend?
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 02:12 PM

My boyfriend is 18 and he has got into trouble with the police before but he has changed and my parents don't care
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 02:21 PM

I have the same exact problem! But technically its illegal so your parents can do whatever they want...but if your moving out and the police ae helping you, you should be fine. I dont understand why parents do this. If were happy, thats all that should matter. But from what youve said, your parents are like mine, so they dont care about being happy.
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 02:22 PM

I'm going to talk to my resource officer after school and see what he says. if that's okay with you?
Parents are annoying sometimes we for us all the time.. If we are happy they should be happy
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 27th 2014, 02:36 PM

Yeah I dont care. Thank you. and right...i dont understand them

ask him if being ptegmant makes a difference...please

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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 31st 2014, 02:06 PM

So i talked to him and he said he is trying to get a hold of some people and see if they can help. And being pregnant does make a difference. She has to help you without hurting you.

Here's the latest on me.. my boyfriend and I broke up and i'm moving out the 10th of April
   
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Re: Pleeease help mee :'( - March 31st 2014, 08:22 PM

You mentioned that you sent an e-mail to the chief police offer, but he never responded. Unfortunately, due to the high volume of e-mails, he may not have seen your message. I think calling your local police department would be your best option. If you can't get to a phone of any kind because you're trapped in your room, but you have access to the internet, then you can set up a Google Voice account. Google Voice allows you to make free calls within the United States. I don't believe you can call 9-1-1, but the local police department's phone number, as well as child abuse/neglect hotlines, should be okay.






   
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