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Annoyed - October 18th 2014, 04:08 AM

An old friend texts sometimes and asks me to go on her facebook and put pictures on it for her it's starting to annoy me
I don't want to do it because I have a lot already.
What should I do?
She say's that her phone won't let her even though it's a smartphone & she has the facebook app on it.

Also another friend texts me and asks me how things are and when I text her back and ask her for advice she won't reply and she get's my texts because it shows that they were receieved.
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Re: Annoyed - October 18th 2014, 04:23 AM

Hey there,

For your first friend, you should explain to her that you do not feel comfortable doing what she is asking. I know it can be hard to tell a friend no but sometimes you have to take a stand for yourself. Let her know that you no longer want to post pictures for her. If you do this you will have to deal with the repercussions of this such as her getting upset with you. But, if she is a true friend she will be understanding and will get over it. Maybe you could work on making a list of reasons why you don't want to continue posting the pictures for her and give her that list point by point. But, there is absolutely nothing wrong with taking a stand for yourself every once in a while.

As for your other friend, is she completely ignoring your messages? If she is completely ignoring your messages then you might want to text her and ask her what is going on. Ask her why she is ignoring your messages and explain to her that it is confusing you. The only way you are going to get down to the bottom of it is if you confront her about it. If, however, she is just late to respond to your text messages she might just be busy so it might not be that big of an issue.

I hope that this helped and I am wishing you the best of luck.


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Re: Annoyed - October 18th 2014, 04:35 AM

Hi,
Thanks <3

One of her other friends used to post the pictures for her but now she's back at asking me to So her other friend must have got annoyed too
I will have to say something to her I guess just rather wouldn't
but if I don't she will keep asking

My other friend isn't busy when I ask her for advice because she doesn't reply at all and it's not like I ask her for advice all the time because I don't you know?
What should I say why it's confusing to me that she is ignoring them?

Thanks for your help <3

Can you give advice for my other thread?
This one ?
http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f18-f...lease-3-~%2A~/

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Hey there,

For your first friend, you should explain to her that you do not feel comfortable doing what she is asking. I know it can be hard to tell a friend no but sometimes you have to take a stand for yourself. Let her know that you no longer want to post pictures for her. If you do this you will have to deal with the repercussions of this such as her getting upset with you. But, if she is a true friend she will be understanding and will get over it. Maybe you could work on making a list of reasons why you don't want to continue posting the pictures for her and give her that list point by point. But, there is absolutely nothing wrong with taking a stand for yourself every once in a while.

As for your other friend, is she completely ignoring your messages? If she is completely ignoring your messages then you might want to text her and ask her what is going on. Ask her why she is ignoring your messages and explain to her that it is confusing you. The only way you are going to get down to the bottom of it is if you confront her about it. If, however, she is just late to respond to your text messages she might just be busy so it might not be that big of an issue.

I hope that this helped and I am wishing you the best of luck.
   
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