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Angry Love child .... :( - July 30th 2015, 03:48 PM

Hey everyone,

I am in serious trouble please help me out !!!

Ok....
A month ago I found out accidentally that my dad has a love hold with another woman in another state and judging by the photos I saw on my dad's phone ( my dad doesn't know I looked though his phone. ...) the kid is already around 2 years old. I'm 100% sure that that's his daughter because he called her his daughter and him her dad and how much he loves her ........ My dad is currently overseas ( at my birth country )and I live with my mum in Australia.
My mum and dad are not divorced and we are separated because me and my sister came to Australia for education. My sister recently moved back to Korea for a job but she lives separately from my dad. My dad keeps telling mum that he loves her and will never have an affair because no body can replace her. I am just so frustrated at how well he can lie to all of us! I just can't believe he would do such things to hurt mum.
I saw some texts messages between my dad and that woman he is having an affair with and it seems like my dad is planning on putting in an application to get the child to move closer to our home in Overseas, obviously so it's more handy for him to see her .....

I am debating whether I should tell mum first to get herself prepared or talk to dad first when I go back to overseas in three weeks time. I told two of my closest friends and both of them told me not to tell mum first but confront dad first to see what he is planning on doing .
However, I feel like mum has the right to know and decide whether she wants to put everything out there. If she wants answers and truth then we will confront dad together. If she chooses to remain quiet because she doesn't want a divorce then I respect her decision.
I just feel soooo wrong confronting dad and let him drop a big bomb on mum after we go back overseas.

Can you please help me ?

Thank heaps !!!!

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Re: Love child .... :( - July 30th 2015, 06:16 PM

I think you should confront your dad first . Maybe it's all a misunderstanding .... If you are absolutely sure you can tell your mom . Timing is important .
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