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Angry Verbally abusive dad and rest of family doesn't give a shit - August 31st 2015, 09:28 PM

I'm a 15 year old boy with a stable family until the last few months when thing started to go downhill. I play multiply sports and do lots of chores around the house and do well in school. But even after I get done these thing and sit down for a few minutes sleep in during the summer or relax and play video games I am constantly being verbally abused by my dad. When these things happen he says things like : you r the laziest kid I have ever met, you are going to grow up a village idiot, you are worthless, go to hell. And then become grounded from laptop and PlayStation. When I approach my mom about his behaviour she tells me to toughen up, you must have deserved it. Which doesn't help the situation at all. These outbursts happen at random for no apparent reasons. I need help now. I become so angry after he shouts at me I can barely hold it in. I need a solution before it ends in violence. He has recently made threats like I'll pound with in a inch of your life and I can't wait until ur 18 and I can beat u without getting charged

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Re: Verbally abusive dad and rest of family doesn't give a shit - September 2nd 2015, 01:54 PM

Hey there. I'm truly sorry that this is going on. No parent should treat their child this way. Have you considered getting outside help? Maybe talking to a counselor at school would be beneficial. They may be able to give you advice on how to handle these situations in a way that 'doesn't end in violence.' May I also suggest talking to your mother one on one. Wait until your dad is at work, or when your mother goes out, ask to tag along.

Explain to your mother that you aren't sure why your father is getting so angry with you, and that you want to find a way to resolve the situation so your father and mother are both proud of you. Keep in mind that while talking to your parents about this, not to play a 'blame game'. Instead of saying 'He is making me angry' try 'I'm not sure why dad is upset at me, but I would like to find out why.' If you keep in mind that using soft tones, and things like 'I'm upset' rather than 'he upset me' things may go a bit better.

I hope this helps. If you ever need anything else, feel free to PM me at anytime. Take care.


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