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My mum took my phone again :( - April 19th 2016, 07:54 PM

My mum got into a massive arguement and then she was literally screaming and trying to snatch my phone off me. Shes now angry at me and Im literally so scared that im crying right now because she might see me and my friends conversation on whatsapp aboutour crushes and start getting mad at me and never trust me again shes not the gentle type, she starts arguements with everyone and thats why I feel uneasy around her all the time . My dad is used to her arguing with him all the time and Im really scared. Before there was an incident where sexual language was used and ever since she doesnt trust me and I said to her I wont do it again but shes doesnt trust anyone. Im literally so scared Im trying to use the online instagram to message my friend to try and tell her to delete the convo Guys what do I do if she sees my convos with my friend about boys? What do I do if she starts screaming at me? She saying she will take me back to Pakistan and im honestly so scared what do I do?
Im never talking to my friends about boys ever again on my phone, thats for sure. I had 20% on my phone and my phone has autolock after 30 seconds so do u guys think she'll be able to get into my phone??

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Re: My mum took my phone again :( - April 20th 2016, 05:29 AM

I'm not sure if she'll be able to get into your phone. If your mom asks to see your phone, I think it is best for you to give it to her easily to show her that you have nothing to hide. If you argue with her about it, or try to delete things, it can make it look like you're trying to hide something and that might upset her more than she already is.

Talking about crushes is a normal thing to do and I don't see the harm in it. I can understand why your mom would feel differently, though. If she asks you about it, just be honest with her. Since this makes you nervous, though, I think you'd benefit from talking to your friends about certain things in another way.

What do you and your mom argue about? If she starts getting upset, it might help for you to tell her that you'd like to talk after you two have some time to cool down. Leaving a conversation and coming back to it might help prevent either of you from saying things you'll regret.

If you're close enough to your dad, try to lean on him for support whenever you get the chance to.

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Re: My mum took my phone again :( - April 20th 2016, 07:31 PM

Thank you I've told my dad and he understands. Thank you for the advice
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