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my parents are kicking me out - June 5th 2009, 06:23 PM

so,i had yet another fight with my dad and my stepmum.this time,shes invading my privacy, reading my diary.
she told my dad to choose either her,and their precious daughter,or me and my eldest sister who doesnt live here anymore.\
my dad is violent sometimes,and he gets mad fast.he told me im the biggest mistake,and he blames the divorce on me. i would live with my mum but she doesnt want me.
my dad told me he cant take it anymore and that he doesnt want me.hes considering sending me to my grandparnts but they dont want me either,and if i dont leave their house,i will end up killing myself, because i cant take it.what shall i do?my stepmums a bitch,and shes always picking on me and starting fights between me and my dad.he beats me up.adoption is not a choice i have? help?
   
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Re: my parents are kicking me out - June 5th 2009, 06:38 PM

Call CPS. They will come pick you up, and if you're parents really don't want you. They are giving you up of their own free will. You will either be placed in a foster home or group home. Probably a receiving home until they find you a family. If you live in the U.S. they will pay for mostly everything, so you actually have a future. If your parents want to sign emmancipation papers at age 16, you're free to go.


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Re: my parents are kicking me out - June 5th 2009, 07:14 PM

i live in dubai,its crap, we dont have cps....but i just talked to my sis,and she says i can go live with her,but in a year, and thats just an idea...i dont knw what to efffin do=(
   
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Re: my parents are kicking me out - June 5th 2009, 09:42 PM

Is there anywhere else you can go to? Or a halfway house or something? I don't know the laws of Dubai, but they should have some form of child protection law. Or maybe see if you can stay at your house until you can move it with your sister?


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Re: my parents are kicking me out - June 6th 2009, 12:58 AM

I just googled Dubai, and while there is only so much google can tell you, it does not sound like you guys have many human rights whatsoever, so this is not a case where I would suggest entrusting yourself with the legal system (unless YOU know of something like CPS that would help you). Tell your sister how urgent the situation is and that you need too move in with her, soon. If that fails, maybe you could stay with a friend?
   
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Re: my parents are kicking me out - June 6th 2009, 09:45 PM

What does the Coran say a/b a father abandoning his daughter? There's gotta be some legal law, or Islamic law to fall back on? Your dad is being a total jerk & especially your stepmum is too for making your dad "choose" between "his" kids or HER kids. Can you find some friends to stay with til you can live w/your sister?


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Re: my parents are kicking me out - June 7th 2009, 02:34 AM

Well idk what to tell you the other people told you great things ha Id say try to come to the us but that would be hard without money and what not...unless you have some fam or friends here that would be willing to take you in....idk try to find something like cys or social services or something I'm with the others there has to be a law against that be strong and try to suceed because in the end your better than them and you gots people who care
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Re: my parents are kicking me out - June 7th 2009, 03:15 AM

hey,everyone,thanks for the help,my sister is coming for a visit and hopefully,she'll convince my dad to let me live with her in the uk.=) wish me luck!!
as for the qur'an,i wouldn't know,my parents arent religious.
   
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Re: my parents are kicking me out - June 10th 2009, 02:30 AM

Hope it all goes over well.
Oh, and if the problem with moving in with your sister is that your Dad won't allow it, how does he have a say if he's kicking you out? You're basically free to do what you want after that.
   
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Re: my parents are kicking me out - June 10th 2009, 07:29 PM

Hey. I live in Dubai too. You could call the police and tell them about the abuse you're having at your home, they would come immediately. Try talking to someone outside your home, maybe an adult you know? I'll try my best to help you. I'll ask my parents if there's any way to help you.


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Re: my parents are kicking me out - June 12th 2009, 06:33 AM

hey,thanks nora,although i dont really want the police involved...im planning to go live with my sister soon,once she moves out of her stusent accomadation...things at home have settled down now,for a bit.my sis is coming too,so hopefully things will get better and we will discuss me living with her,wish me luck =D
   
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Re: my parents are kicking me out - June 15th 2009, 06:24 PM

Ohh ookay. Np, if you ever need something, pm me
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